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Posted 02 April 2012 - 07:42 AM

2 of those were sarcasm, is the "point" that you have no sense of humour? I believe so.


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Posted 02 April 2012 - 07:55 AM

Honestly, I don't feel bad for the girls at all. No where did it say that he forced these girls into doing this, nor did he threaten them. These normal, capable, aware girls knew what they were doing and what the consequences could be and still decided to partake in sexual activities with this guy for better marks. Girls get crushes on teachers all the time. On a recent episode of TMZ some band called One Direction flew to LAX and these 15, 16, 17 year old girls were screaming "have sex with me!" infront of the cameras. These girls are dumb and stupid and get no sympathy from me. They were willing to have sex with this guy while the option of turning away and going home/reporting to an authority was there the whole time.

If I'm a 16 year old boy and i'm attracted to my teacher and she says hey meet me here after 2pm for a little fun if you know what i mean and I'll give you an A on your next test, and I go there at 2pm and have a little fun, I would not expect people to feel bad for me.


You only need to read your own response to see why this thinking is wrong.

"Girls". You've referred to them as "girls" throughout and, rightfully so. As "girls" they are young, impressionable and these decisions will stick with them for a lifetime. A teacher is in a position of authority and shouldn't take advantage of girls. As girls, it's wrong for an adult to solicit them for sex. Sure, you may argue that, at that age, they should know better. But, at 16, some don't have the tools in place to decide in situations like this - especially if there's peer pressure involved and others are suggesting something's ok. As adults, we're in place to steer them in the right direction, not take advantage of that situation.

Young girls do many silly things but it doesn't mean that adults should encourage or suggest they do so. And, as a 16 year old, your teacher would be wrong to hone in on your attraction.

The teacher-student relationship is one of mentoring and guidance and there is nothing you can say to make this "right".

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 08:10 AM

OK, hadn't read all the responses.

Here's something to consider, NPF.

What if one of these 16 year old girls who "consented" already has a terrible home life? What if she is already being abused, by someone close to her and is programmed not to say no? There could be complex, underlying issues and beyond more than "the girl agreed". What if her need for acceptance is such that the prospect of getting better grades for a father who beats her if she doesn't has her agree to this? There are many kids already experiencing things at home that may mean their decision making skills aren't up to par and their self esteem is already non existent. So a teacher shouldn't even be presenting something so inappropriate.

When girls behave this way, they need direction (not encouragement).

Here's the bottom line: it shouldnt' be an option. The teacher, as a figure of authority, may already have a hold on the girl who "chooses" yes because she may feel she has no other choice. She's been taught to agree to these propositions. It can be more complex to some than a "yes/no" deal. So we don't put inappropriate options on the table for kids who, out of desperation, may choose them.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 08:18 AM

^ it's already logical to point out that teacher is in a position of authority, in fact, acting as a guardian, and no guardian in a school setting should be allowed that type of relationship, regardless of whether or not the teenager is consenting or on her knees begging.

The more one delves into the psychology of a teenager, maturity level, and home upbringing the more it goes in the opposite direction, as in, students should be allowed that discretion. Teenagers wilfully having sex in their very early teens, most of them well before they graduate high school -- can you really give that much credence to bad home upbringing since it's so overwhelmingly popular?

The more people paint teenagers as these innocent non-sexual beings, and start looking for people to hang when they do things teenagers do, the further away from "education" this goes, the more it puts parents and schools in a position not to react intelligently to reality. First step is acknowledging what smacks people in the face. Second is burying such fervent idealism.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 08:41 AM

The guy is just plain brutal... put him away for a long time.
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Posted 02 April 2012 - 09:12 AM

Very sad....very sad indeed...let me guess....he will get 2 years max and meanwhile his victims are scarred for life...

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 09:14 AM

Side note: It would be interesting to see what the age is of all those who added a + to this post. And I'm betting they're not fathers of a daughter.


I wonder if it reflects an "I'd do it too" line of thinking.

I'm not saying this about NPF in particular, but the ones that anonymously show him support for that post.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 09:35 AM

I wonder if it reflects an "I'd do it too" line of thinking.

I'm not saying this about NPF in particular, but the ones that anonymously show him support for that post.

Yep even though I'm happily married and have kids, giving him a + on an internet forum is a sure sign I'd get me some high school pooty tang if I were a teacher.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 10:15 AM

OK, hadn't read all the responses.

Here's something to consider, NPF.

What if one of these 16 year old girls who "consented" already has a terrible home life? What if she is already being abused, by someone close to her and is programmed not to say no? There could be complex, underlying issues and beyond more than "the girl agreed". What if her need for acceptance is such that the prospect of getting better grades for a father who beats her if she doesn't has her agree to this? There are many kids already experiencing things at home that may mean their decision making skills aren't up to par and their self esteem is already non existent. So a teacher shouldn't even be presenting something so inappropriate.

When girls behave this way, they need direction (not encouragement).

Here's the bottom line: it shouldnt' be an option. The teacher, as a figure of authority, may already have a hold on the girl who "chooses" yes because she may feel she has no other choice. She's been taught to agree to these propositions. It can be more complex to some than a "yes/no" deal. So we don't put inappropriate options on the table for kids who, out of desperation, may choose them.


I'm not saying it should've been an option. It shouldn't have happened at all. But I seriously doubt all these girls who took part in this scandal were girls from bad families and being abused by their parents..etc. It's very realistic that some of these girls are just plain old sluts that we all have known or encountered in our high school and/or college days.

But hey, your entitled to your opinion and I'm entitled to mine. You're a female and a mother so obviously your frame of reference is going to be different from mine. But from my side, unless more information does come to light such as this teacher knew these girls were vulnerable because of a bad home life and took advantage of them, or he had a knife pointed at them..etc. I'm not going to give them any sympathy. I knew a girl who went to a high school close to mine who had a relationship with the vice principle there. Didn't think of her as a victim then and don't think of them as a victim now. Don't mistake my lack of sympathy for a I think the teacher is innocent though, no, this guy should get raped in jail in my opinion.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 10:19 AM

Yep even though I'm happily married and have kids, giving him a + on an internet forum is a sure sign I'd get me some high school pooty tang if I were a teacher.


Wasn't the suspect in this case? Just saying it makes no difference.

NPF has said for the record that the guy's a pig and should get what's coming to him, and the girls aren't free of blame either, but the way he stated his point made it look like he was making excuses for the guy. I thought some people may just be inclined to "understand the temptation" and have sympathy for the guy.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 10:47 AM

Wasn't the suspect in this case? Just saying it makes no difference.

NPF has said for the record that the guy's a pig and should get what's coming to him, and the girls aren't free of blame either, but the way he stated his point made it look like he was making excuses for the guy. I thought some people may just be inclined to "understand the temptation" and have sympathy for the guy.

Well at very least being the adult and acting guardian he bears responsibility for his actions far more than a teenager.

However, playing devils advocate, what if he is mentally ill? I see people rightfully concerned mightily with how a teenager that themselves willingly would go out and consent to this sort of thing, and their parents/how they are parented, but where's the concern for the possible mental ailments this teacher could be suffering from? What about societal influences? Teenager influences? School-based influences? Mental illness is attributed to a certain population who look at child pornography, even some previous teachers who slept with students. What's interesting to me is that on this subject people are so fast to jump on their victim-based soapbox and attack different opinions as if their conclusion is the only possible one. Hence why I + the hell out of posts Bertuzzi Babe was critical of, and watched him/her flounder around in mediocrity completely missing the point.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 11:36 AM

It's entirely true that since NOBODY here knows the exact mental state, emotional state, or thought processes of the girls and teacher involved, most arguments about this event are simply individual's opinions.

The girls should have known better, but may have had other circumstances (abused, peer pressure, reduced mental capacity, etc)
The teacher should have known better, but may have some mental disorder.

Ignoring both of those potential circumstances, it still comes down to the fact that the girls chose to participate. They agreed to do it. The teacher was entirely wrong to ask them to do it, but they did not have to do it. While people (male and female) in their teens make plenty of stupid decisions, they do still understand the concept of right and wrong. The teacher is absolutely in the wrong for abusing power and situation, but the girls made the decision to allow him to do so.

In the end, it's just another example of why I say, society is corrupt at every level and anyone who thinks it isn't, is hiding from the truth.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 12:14 PM

Well at very least being the adult and acting guardian he bears responsibility for his actions far more than a teenager.

However, playing devils advocate, what if he is mentally ill? I see people rightfully concerned mightily with how a teenager that themselves willingly would go out and consent to this sort of thing, and their parents/how they are parented, but where's the concern for the possible mental ailments this teacher could be suffering from? What about societal influences? Teenager influences? School-based influences? Mental illness is attributed to a certain population who look at child pornography, even some previous teachers who slept with students. What's interesting to me is that on this subject people are so fast to jump on their victim-based soapbox and attack different opinions as if their conclusion is the only possible one. Hence why I + the hell out of posts Bertuzzi Babe was critical of, and watched him/her flounder around in mediocrity completely missing the point.


Interesting that my name is the only one singled out here, like I'm the ONLY one who ever posts a dissenting opinion on any given topic in OT. If anyone missed the point, it was you. I've already acknowledged that I got your point yet you keep dragging it up again and again. Get over it. YOU completely missed the point I made about people who don't bother to read a post but post a + on it just because of the person who responded to it. You've just acknowledged it here, for God's sake. :rolleyes: Doesn't matter whether it's relevant or not, it's the name on the post. Sad and just downright bloody silly, that is. How you must hate the absence of the - button. But then again, you're probably a member of that group whose indiscriminate use of it was one of the reasons it was finally done away with......

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 12:20 PM

It's not like this guy was offering sex to ESL or special needs girls for better grades. These were what the education system considers normal girls in a "normal" classroom. YOU don't have any idea of what happened either. How do you know that these girls didn't have a huge crush on this guy and fantasies about him and when the opportunity to play them out presented itself they took them? You don't, so why don't you also stop acting like these girls were forced into it and had no other option and are huge victims.

Oh and by the way, my sister has been, and my future, if any, daughters will be raised to be smarter than these girls. They'll actually have some self respect and dignity. If you knew anything about me or my family you'd know my sister has been raised in a way that if any teacher suggested this to her my dad would be getting a phone call from her as she walked to the principle's office to alert them.

You don't like my example? Fine, here's another one as a girl. I'm a 16 year old girl who has a crush on my teacher. One day after school, without pointing a weapon at me or threatening to fail me or anything, he suggests some sexual favors in exchange for better grades. Now, while I COULD just turn around and leave and tell someone, or maybe not tell anyone cause I was too embarassed or shocked, I decide to be like yeah sure let's go have sex. I don't see how I'm the victim here. Care to explain how a girl all on her own makes this decision and has a way out of it before making this decision is a victim?

Unless further reports come out of this case such as he threatened them in a physical or mental way if they didn't do as he said, these girls are as stupid as those on shows like 16 & Pregnant and Teen Mom.

Oh and to touch upon your comment about how I'd feel if this happened to my daughter? I'd wanna kill the teacher who did this but I'd be as equally angry with my daughter about how she could be such a stupid moron; just like the dads of the girls on the aforementioned shows who can't believe how stupid their daughters could be to get knocked up.

You're one of those people who even if these girls approached the teacher themselves and were like I wanna have sex with you, you'd still consider the girls victims.

The real victims of this story are this pig's wife and kids. Having to live and grow up in a small town where everyone will know that their ex husband/dad had sex with high school girls.


Yes, they have choice. But you're missing the bigger picture. They're still victims of a system that's educating and developing their minds. For 8 hours a day, they're out of their parents hands and teachers/peers have a huge impact on psychological development.

You clearly haven't bothered to research or explore the complex social issues that surround and affect teens' mental and physical health. Do you even remotely remember being a teenager? For all I know, you could be a teenager.
In case you didn't know (because it seems like you don't), the teenage body is very reflective of the teenage mind. It's a time of development; Discovering identity, sexual preference, and forming opinion. At this age, these girls are very vulnerable. They may have parents who don't pay attention to them or they might come from abusive homes. Their parents may be addicted to drugs. This has a huge impact on teenage sexual identity.

Exploitation was used by the teacher. He quite literally used his power to give them higher grades in exchange for sexual favors. It was an exchange of goods and services, much like that of a pimp who provides his prostitute with drugs. Now, you might also be ignorant enough to assume that all prostitutes have a choice. This is probably because you are uneducated about the sex slave industry. If you know anything about that industry then you would know that young girls are taken from their families at a vulnerable age, forced to develop a drug habit, and become dependent to the drug. Addiction no longer becomes a choice, but a way of life.

Why am I telling you all of this? Because your ignorant comments heavily suggest a lack of understanding and comprehension of complex issues. These girls deserve an education and mentors they can trust. But instead they got a corrupt teacher who took advantage of their developing minds. Educate yourself.


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Posted 02 April 2012 - 12:24 PM

Yes, they have choice. But you're missing the bigger picture. They're still victims of a system that's educating and developing their minds. For 8 hours a day, they're out of their parents hands and teachers/peers have a huge impact on psychological development.

You clearly haven't bothered to research or explore the complex social issues that surround and affect teens' mental and physical health. Do you even remotely remember being a teenager? For all I know, you could be a teenager.
In case you didn't know (because it seems like you don't), the teenage body is very reflective of the teenage mind. It's a time of development; Discovering identity, sexual preference, and forming opinion. At this age, these girls are very vulnerable. They may have parents who don't pay attention to them or they might come from abusive homes. Their parents may be addicted to drugs. This has a huge impact on teenage sexual identity.

Exploitation was used by the teacher. He quite literally used his power to give them higher grades in exchange for sexual favors. It was an exchange of goods and services, much like that of a pimp who provides his prostitute with drugs. Now, you might also be ignorant enough to assume that all prostitutes have a choice. This is probably because you are uneducated about the sex slave industry. If you know anything about that industry then you would know that young girls are taken from their families at a vulnerable age, forced to develop a drug habit, and become dependent to the drug. Addiction no longer becomes a choice, but a way of life.

Why am I telling you all of this? Because your ignorant comments heavily suggest a lack of understanding and comprehension of complex issues. These girls deserve an education and mentors they can trust. But instead they got a corrupt teacher who took advantage of their developing minds. Educate yourself.


Bravo, well said!!!

(Careful though, someone will want to kick your 'victim-based soapbox' out from under your feet! ;))

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 12:54 PM

Yes, they have choice. But you're missing the bigger picture. They're still victims of a system that's educating and developing their minds. For 8 hours a day, they're out of their parents hands and teachers/peers have a huge impact on psychological development.

You clearly haven't bothered to research or explore the complex social issues that surround and affect teens' mental and physical health. Do you even remotely remember being a teenager? For all I know, you could be a teenager.
In case you didn't know (because it seems like you don't), the teenage body is very reflective of the teenage mind. It's a time of development; Discovering identity, sexual preference, and forming opinion. At this age, these girls are very vulnerable. They may have parents who don't pay attention to them or they might come from abusive homes. Their parents may be addicted to drugs. This has a huge impact on teenage sexual identity.

Exploitation was used by the teacher. He quite literally used his power to give them higher grades in exchange for sexual favors. It was an exchange of goods and services, much like that of a pimp who provides his prostitute with drugs. Now, you might also be ignorant enough to assume that all prostitutes have a choice. This is probably because you are uneducated about the sex slave industry. If you know anything about that industry then you would know that young girls are taken from their families at a vulnerable age, forced to develop a drug habit, and become dependent to the drug. Addiction no longer becomes a choice, but a way of life.

Why am I telling you all of this? Because your ignorant comments heavily suggest a lack of understanding and comprehension of complex issues. These girls deserve an education and mentors they can trust. But instead they got a corrupt teacher who took advantage of their developing minds. Educate yourself.


Please, provide proof that states that these girls parents abused them, or are drug addicts or whatever else you decided to list off. Until you can, that's just your opinion. You make these girls sound like they're complete morons who have no morals or sense of direction and this teacher magically brainwashed them. I've never even seen or encountered any 16 year old girls who have absolutely zero self control and can be manipulated oh so easily by some teacher they may or may not like. What planet do you live on? Cause here on Earth, by the time a girl is 16 she knows what's wrong and right and can make decisions on her own. So again, please, can you show me where it says that these girls for sure have some sort of mental deficiency or that their parents abused them or that their parents don't give them attention? No, you can't. For all we know these girls are from a loving family who live in a nice house, have a pet dog and eat dinner together every night; yet the girl just likes sex and is a slut. But thanks for the laugh.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 12:54 PM

Bravo, well said!!!

(Careful though, someone will want to kick your 'victim-based soapbox' out from under your feet! ;))


If they want to misrepresent the poor girls caught in this awful situation, they're the ones who have to live with that on their conscience, not me. I feel sorry for those who have taken such little thought to their words.
I also believe there has to be grace and understanding for this flawed teacher too. He's clearly mixed up in ways we can't understand. He might also come from a twisted background of deceit, lies, and abuse. Again, we don't know. But he was in the position of power and authority and is therefore the oppressor. These girls are victims. There's no defeat in admitting that. We have to realize this. He has a greater responsibility because he was given the task of influencing and shaping young minds.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 12:59 PM

Please, provide proof that states that these girls parents abused them, or are drug addicts or whatever else you decided to list off. Until you can, that's just your opinion. You make these girls sound like they're complete morons who have no morals or sense of direction and this teacher magically brainwashed them. I've never even seen or encountered any 16 year old girls who have absolutely zero self control and can be manipulated oh so easily by some teacher they may or may not like. What planet do you live on? Cause here on Earth, by the time a girl is 16 she knows what's wrong and right and can make decisions on her own. So again, please, can you show me where it says that these girls for sure have some sort of mental deficiency or that their parents abused them or that their parents don't give them attention? No, you can't. For all we know these girls are from a loving family who live in a nice house, have a pet dog and eat dinner together every night; yet the girl just likes sex and is a slut. But thanks for the laugh.


'Cause you know everything there is to know about a 16 year old girl's mind and thought processes, right? Obtuse is obtuse, and there seems to be a great deal of it in your post. The blatant ignorance in your post is mind-numbing.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:01 PM

1.) "Please, provide proof that states that these girls parents abused them, or are drug addicts or whatever else you decided to list off." Until you can, that's just your opinion. You make these girls sound like they're complete morons who have no morals or sense of direction and this teacher magically brainwashed them. I've never even seen or encountered any 16 year old girls who have absolutely zero self control and can be manipulated oh so easily by some teacher they may or may not like. What planet do you live on? Cause here on Earth, by the time a girl is 16 she knows what's wrong and right and can make decisions on her own. So again, please, can you show me where it says that these girls for sure have some sort of mental deficiency or that their parents abused them or that their parents don't give them attention? No, you can't. For all we know these girls are from a loving family who live in a nice house, have a pet dog and eat dinner together every night; yet the girl just likes sex and is a slut. But thanks for the laugh.


How can you be so ignorant? Read my post again.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:02 PM

How can you be so ignorant? Read my post again.


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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:04 PM

'Cause you know everything there is to know about a 16 year old girl's mind and thought processes, right? Obtuse is obtuse, and there seems to be a great deal of it in your post. The blatant ignorance in your post is mind-numbing.

I didn't say I know everything about a 16 year old girls mind. I said I have no sympathy for these girls because until/if other information is released regarding the backgrounds of the teacher and the girls, the girls had an option of accepting sex for better grades or to report him, they chose sex. Why? Who knows, we may never know. Were the girls sluts? Did their dads beat them at home? Was this teacher the twin brother of bradley cooper and they all wanted to jump his bones? Who knows. That's my opinion. Deal with it.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:06 PM

How can you be so ignorant? Read my post again.

How can you make claims that these girls have to deal with all these problems and that's why they had sex with the teacher without backing your claims up? Like me, you're just assuming what the situation was. Your opinion is that every single girl who had sex with him were all from bad families. Cool, whatever floats your boat. My opinion is what I've already stated. If you can't get past that then get off the internet.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:07 PM

Please, provide proof that states that these girls parents abused them, or are drug addicts or whatever else you decided to list off. Until you can, that's just your opinion. You make these girls sound like they're complete morons who have no morals or sense of direction and this teacher magically brainwashed them. I've never even seen or encountered any 16 year old girls who have absolutely zero self control and can be manipulated oh so easily by some teacher they may or may not like. What planet do you live on? Cause here on Earth, by the time a girl is 16 she knows what's wrong and right and can make decisions on her own. So again, please, can you show me where it says that these girls for sure have some sort of mental deficiency or that their parents abused them or that their parents don't give them attention? No, you can't. For all we know these girls are from a loving family who live in a nice house, have a pet dog and eat dinner together every night; yet the girl just likes sex and is a slut. But thanks for the laugh.


I'm not going to get into whether I agree with this or not. I'm just curious what your cutoff point is. How young does someone have to be for you to consider them completely without fault for an adult having sex with them?

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:08 PM

I didn't say I know everything about a 16 year old girls mind. I said I have no sympathy for these girls because until/if other information is released regarding the backgrounds of the teacher and the girls, the girls had an option of accepting sex for better grades or to report him, they chose sex. Why? Who knows, we may never know. Were the girls sluts? Did their dads beat them at home? Was this teacher the twin brother of bradley cooper and they all wanted to jump his bones? Who knows. That's my opinion. Deal with it.


You seem to really like the word 'slut' as a descriptor for some reason which lends the assumption that you have some sort of issue with girls who like sex. Just an observation.

And interesting you say "That's my opinion. Deal with it." yet refuse to 'deal' with anyone who doesn't agree with your own posted opinion. Some insight into the mindset of 16 year old girls was posted earlier but you refuse to even acknowledge it........ being so entrenched in your sanctimonious opinion of the girls who are the victims in this story.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:11 PM

How can you make claims that these girls have to deal with all these problems and that's why they had sex with the teacher without backing your claims up? Like me, you're just assuming what the situation was. Your opinion is that every single girl who had sex with him were all from bad families. Cool, whatever floats your boat. My opinion is what I've already stated. If you can't get past that then get off the internet.



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Seriously.........


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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:13 PM

You seem to really like the word 'slut' as a descriptro for some reason which lends the assumption that you have some sort of issue with girls who like sex. Just an observation.

And interesting you say "That's my opinion. Deal with it." yet refuse to 'deal' with anyone who doesn't agree with your own posted opinion. Some insight into the mindset of 16 year old girls was posted earlier but you refuse to even acknowledge it being so entrenched in your sanctimonious opinion of the girls who are the victims in this story.

I have no problem with your opinion. The majority of this thread has been you and now G O disagreeing with my opinion. Some insight was posted regarding the mind of a 16 year old, cool. Was it these 16 year olds? Probably not, everyone's different. Again, if you're gonna keep replying to me regarding my opinion, great. You don't see me telling you your opinion's wrong.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:14 PM

LMAO!!!!!!!!! Oh man, Posted Image


Seriously.........


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Ah, I used to be like you. When I couldn't get people to agree with me I would post a "LOL" or "LMAO are you for real?" to make myself feel superior to them. Congratulations :)

Anyways, feel free to keep disagreeing with my opinion, you're not going to change it. You're like the person who created that people in off topic disgust me thread. You let the opinions of strangers on a hockey board effect you too much. If you find any proof as to whether these girls really were manipulated or pressured because of a bad home environment, do PM me. For now, keep pounding your chests and shaking your fists and thinking you're actually getting through to strangers. :picard:

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:17 PM

Ah, I used to be like you. When I couldn't get people to agree with me I would post a "LOL" or "LMAO are you for real?" to make myself feel superior to them. Congratulations :)


If you like the wind blowing past over your head......great. You obviously missed that it was a response to the bolded portion of your post, duh. :rolleyes:

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:24 PM

Anyways, feel free to keep disagreeing with my opinion, you're not going to change it. You're like the person who created that people in off topic disgust me thread. You let the opinions of strangers on a hockey board effect you too much. If you find any proof as to whether these girls really were manipulated or pressured because of a bad home environment, do PM me. For now, keep pounding your chests and shaking your fists and thinking you're actually getting through to strangers. :picard:


And yet here you are too, still yapping away......... :picard:

Pot.....kettle..........hmmmmm.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 01:27 PM

slimeball [ˈslaɪmˌbɔːl]
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Slang an odious and contemptible person

- hopefully this "teacher" will be exchanging sexual favors, in prison, for "good grades".


Ha ha so awesome! He will be exchanging sexual favours for protection. lol!
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