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#241 Scottish⑦Canuck

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 04:51 PM

My faith in CDC's ability to host a sensible discussion keeps hitting new lows.

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 04:52 PM

What I said:

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What BB heard:

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So if you had a daughter and i was dating her you would be cool with me hitting her , like the man in the image you have posted ?

I think it's rad when balls beats natural talent

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 04:56 PM

I think the OP is making the right choice of finding another girl. When you’re entering a possible relationship with someone who has insecurity/self-esteem issues you’re asking for trouble. You know the saying “you have to love yourself, before you can love another person” I think rings true. These problems would probably manifest themselves in terms of control/jealousy. I’d also assume both parties are young and that she could very well have not been in a relationship before.

It’s unfortunate that her issues would lead to her missing more opportunities but it would be best if you don’t lead her on when you’ve already made your mind up. Be up front, diplomatic, and aware of her sensitive nature.

Offer to be there for her to talk to but don’t expect to solve her issues yourself. These are obstacles that she needs to recognize and deal with. You can be there to support her but ultimately she will need to take the initiative to change and it’s about changing how she thinks not how she acts.

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 04:57 PM

This is such BS.



Well please enlighten me as to why this is BS .

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 05:03 PM

Assumed you were middle aged because of how up tight you are. Relax. It's an internet forum.
No. Seriously. Relax. Get out, get some fresh air.
I think having women chasing me grants me the title of knowing what women want. You think it's easy to sleep with attractive women? No. It took time. I figured out what they wanted, and I can assure you it wasn't me being a nice, gentle loser.
If I want to get married to a slightly overweight chick with no prospects I'll try your approach though. Thanks.


PS. It's because every single one of your posts has you being in an argument with someone.


so what kind of loser do the girls who sleep with you like if you are not nice and gentle ?

I think it's rad when balls beats natural talent

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The Real war is not between the east and the west. The real war is between intelligent and stupid people.

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#246 Sharpshooter

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 05:03 PM

Oh, I was talking more about you in this thread in general. Everything is so personal to you.
Relax bro


:huh: da fuq??

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 05:10 PM

So if you had a daughter and i was dating her you would be cool with me hitting her , like the man in the image you have posted ?

Well please enlighten me as to why this is BS .

so what kind of loser do the girls who sleep with you like if you are not nice and gentle ?


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well I'm sorry that gd is soo perfect


#248 CanuckianOne

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 05:16 PM

Come on guys...Enough of this. The guy just wanted some advice. Now the topic will get locked if you keep this up

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#249 Scottish⑦Canuck

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 05:17 PM

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It's more like CDC's answer to a civil war.

Choose your side people.

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 05:39 PM

Run for your life. An extremely insecure girl's constant doubt will wear you down.


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Posted 02 September 2012 - 05:47 PM

So if you had a daughter and i was dating her you would be cool with me hitting her , like the man in the image you have posted ?


I don't even know what to say. Nobody can possibly be this dense. I'm going to assume you're joking.

Please refer to the post below for all of our sakes (you can call me dense once if you're the kind to get upset over not getting the last word in):

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OK guys, argument ends here. Back to posting on topic please....


Buddy I called this EXACT situtation on here two years ago and was flamed, so I guess I have a bit of hockey knowledge, not to mention the 4 years I played in the OHL idiot.


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Posted 02 September 2012 - 06:03 PM

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. I do not like people who demean women ,and people who attack my friends .

I think it's rad when balls beats natural talent

Shaun Palmer

 

The Real war is not between the east and the west. The real war is between intelligent and stupid people.

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#253 GodzillaDeuce

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 06:05 PM

. I do not like people who demean women ,and people who attack my friends .


I like egging people on, and posting silly image macros

well I'm sorry that gd is soo perfect


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Posted 02 September 2012 - 06:07 PM

I don't even know what to say. Nobody can possibly be this dense. I'm going to assume you're joking.

Please refer to the post below for all of our sakes (you can call me dense once if you're the kind to get upset over not getting the last word in):

. If you would not like anyone treating your daughter this way ,why did you post a picture of a man hitting a woman ? And I will tell you what upsets me ,misogyny .

I think it's rad when balls beats natural talent

Shaun Palmer

 

The Real war is not between the east and the west. The real war is between intelligent and stupid people.

Marjane Satrapi


#255 Buddhas Hand

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 06:11 PM

I like egging people on, and posting silly image macros

. Nothing like a bit of contention to get the juices flowing ,eh mate

I think it's rad when balls beats natural talent

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The Real war is not between the east and the west. The real war is between intelligent and stupid people.

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#256 Strawberries

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 06:19 PM

this sure is a entertaining thread
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Posted 02 September 2012 - 06:33 PM

What you're basically suggesting is that he set an ultimatum (drop deaq date)

Those don't usually turn out well.

The reason some people, including myself, are suggesting the 'cut and run' is only because some of us have had similar experiences and know what's waiting. Time goes by quickly, waiting for a picture for the excuse that they're not ready yet should be the biggest protip that one can get about the other person....namely, they're not ready yet....and if you're waiting around for someone's who's 'not ready' to get into one, then you're an idiot for waiting around hoping that they'll be ready 'soon'.


I am suggesting a personal date, not saying he should tell her and put and pressure as that would make it worse. Just write it down somewhere and not let it get past that point (two months or so)

He should try (better to have not tried at all) but be careful it does not become a lifestyle. Running away without even a small effort could have you obsessing over what could have been. Especially if you felt a connection there. Make an attempt, just don't let it drag out for too long lest it become a different type of obsession.

I was saying Lu-Urns...

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 06:36 PM

. If you would not like anyone treating your daughter this way ,why did you post a picture of a man hitting a woman ? And I will tell you what upsets me ,misogyny .

Daft people upset me.

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 06:37 PM

So if you had a daughter and i was dating her you would be cool with me hitting her , like the man in the image you have posted ?


Not to defend him but he wasn't glorifying hitting women, he was trying to poke at BB's interpretation of his posts (that's between her and him). Really, this is a boat that's been going in circles and sticking your oar in the water is not going to straighten it out

I was saying Lu-Urns...

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 07:13 PM

Daft people upset me.

. You must get pissed off with yourself quite a bit then .

I think it's rad when balls beats natural talent

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 07:24 PM

. You must get pissed off with yourself quite a bit then .


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well I'm sorry that gd is soo perfect


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Posted 02 September 2012 - 07:42 PM

Not to defend him but he wasn't glorifying hitting women, he was trying to poke at BB's interpretation of his posts (that's between her and him). Really, this is a boat that's been going in circles and sticking your oar in the water is not going to straighten it out

Mate I really hate men that demean women. And here in Australia if some one messes with your friend then you stand by their side .

I think it's rad when balls beats natural talent

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The Real war is not between the east and the west. The real war is between intelligent and stupid people.

Marjane Satrapi


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Posted 02 September 2012 - 07:48 PM

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Made me laugh out loud.

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 08:16 PM

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. Mate you should really treat your mrs better than that .

I think it's rad when balls beats natural talent

Shaun Palmer

 

The Real war is not between the east and the west. The real war is between intelligent and stupid people.

Marjane Satrapi


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Posted 02 September 2012 - 08:19 PM

send a pic OP
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Posted 02 September 2012 - 08:39 PM

she is probably a dude. try going outside and meeting a girl that way face to face.


lol!

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 08:50 PM

Holy... sh...

What are all of you guys a bunch of teenage girls?

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 08:58 PM

"Want to come to the family barbecue and enjoy the long weekend?"

"No thanks. I need to think of a next level 'burn' to really show my internet opponent off in the dating thread on a hockey forum"

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 09:04 PM

"Want to come to the family barbecue and enjoy the long weekend?"

"No thanks. I need to think of a next level 'burn' to really show my internet opponent off in the dating thread on a hockey forum"

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Pathetic :lol:

I've thoroughly enjoyed reading it though.

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Posted 02 September 2012 - 09:07 PM

what the.....




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