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#61 J.R.

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Posted 17 October 2012 - 10:21 AM

FWIW... my ex was physically and mentally abusive and basically took me for ~$115k including child support for a kid that wasn't mine...just saying.

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Posted 17 October 2012 - 10:56 AM

i'd say "if there's grass of the field play ball", but models typically de-sod.

if it was my daughter though; i'd forbid her from seeing you.

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Posted 17 October 2012 - 11:00 AM

I personally don't see anything wrong with it, although it could make for awkward moments.
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Posted 17 October 2012 - 12:12 PM

3 years isn't much of an age difference at all. My wife is 6 years younger then me and it works for us.
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Posted 17 October 2012 - 02:32 PM

My wife's 4 years younger.

It might be an issue in a couple years when you're in your early 20's but I doubt you'd still be together then anyway...
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 02:41 AM

Are you really desperate enough to ask CDCers (mainly 13-16 year olds) for relationship advice? Would you really trust people who are still probably virgins, for advice on whether you should date a model? I think 90% of the people on this site would say yes to any girl, because i highly doubt they would be able to get a model of any age. Just Sayin'
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 02:45 AM

Lol do what you think is right, stop caring about other peoples opinions. At the end of the day its your happiness and your life, live it to the fullest. If you think this girl is the one for you, then by all means don't hesitate and just make your move. Your true friends will show and if they judge you, then their not worth your time. Enough said.

PS. Never come on to the internet for dating advice nor CDC for that matter.

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Posted 19 October 2012 - 05:21 AM

I would like to point out that I'm 16 (17 @ the end of the month), and I'm finishing school in January (half a year early). I have plans in place to be moved out of the house and fully employed with other career choices in place if this one job doesn't work out.

All I'm saying is that not all 16 year olds are totally immature.


That's fantastic. Good for you!

My reasoning had nothing to do with maturity. At the end of the day though, the OP is gonna go with what his heart is telling him to do.. not what CDC'ers think. When you're in love, age doesnt really matter... when things start falling apart, age and being at different points in your lives starts mattering a whole lot.
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 07:30 AM


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Posted 19 October 2012 - 02:52 PM

Well, it's legal and as long as you love her go for it. I was dating a 16 year old when I was 21, not because she was 16, because she was an amazing person and she was wonderful to be around. I her parents didn't move to Ontario I probably still be with her.

Love conquers all after all. (Except long distance relationships, those never work out. Ever!)

i'd say "if there's grass of the field play ball", but models typically de-sod.

if it was my daughter though; i'd forbid her from seeing you.


That's a little hypocritical of you. :P

Edited by Gumballthechewy, 19 October 2012 - 02:54 PM.

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Posted 19 October 2012 - 02:58 PM

That's a little hypocritical of you. :P

And I'm perfectly fine with that.

also, I'd threaten his life with a vast array of weaponry that I would purchase exclusively for the point of the threat, then probably return them after the point is made and he leaves her alone.

Edited by avelanch, 19 October 2012 - 02:59 PM.

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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:00 PM

That's a little hypocritical of you. :P


As a man I say any chance to fool around with a hot girl is worthwhile and should be pursued ::D

As a soon to be father, if she was my daughter I'd be polishing my knife and sword collection EVERY time I saw you and would give you a friendly handshake every time I saw you (that would nearly crush your little fingers you worthless @#$%) :mad:
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:17 PM

As a man I say any chance to fool around with a hot girl is worthwhile and should be pursued ::D

As a soon to be father, if she was my daughter I'd be polishing my knife and sword collection EVERY time I saw you and would give you a friendly handshake every time I saw you (that would nearly crush your little fingers you worthless @#$%) :mad:

exactly!

when is your daughter due? mine is set to arrive Feb 26, but she's half filipino, so she'll most likely be late ::D
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:18 PM

exactly!

when is your daughter due? mine is set to arrive Feb 26, but she's half filipino, so she'll most likely be late ::D


Don't know the sexes of either (twins) but they're due on the apocalypse ::D
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:22 PM

Don't know the sexes of either (twins) but they're due on the apocalypse ::D

Hooray for twins!

Dec 21, eh? sucks to be them, that's a date that's ripe for christmas gifts being combined with their b-day gifts. Great news for you though ::D since they are twins, i guess it'll even out (still 2 gifts a year, but that's cheaper than 4!)

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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:37 PM

Yup, I win by virtue of my super-sperm :P

Twins normally come early though so they'll probably be here more like early Dec. Wife's already measuring the equivalent of a woman with single baby at 40 weeks :blink:

How's yours doing? She shouldn't be too bad not being due until Feb, eh?
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:42 PM

OP, she sounds like a catch, and it's been mentioned, three years won't matter much since she'll eventually become an adult; what's more, if you guys are Asian and baby faces they might think that you're even closer to her age than you actually are, and there wouldn't be this whole issue with different ages! (Even without that though, what's three years really? As long as both of you are mature for your age there shouldn't be much of an issue with it-- the model thing would be what I'd be wary of though, though if both of you are committed as well she'd still be good to you!)

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Don't know the sexes of either (twins) but they're due on the apocalypse ::D


LOL way to put that :P congrats!
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:44 PM

Yup, I win by virtue of my super-sperm :P

Twins normally come early though so they'll probably be here more like early Dec. Wife's already measuring the equivalent of a woman with single baby at 40 weeks :blink:

How's yours doing? She shouldn't be too bad not being due until Feb, eh?

she's definitely showing. she's a tiny specimen of an Asian (exactly 5 feet tall, and barely over 100LBS on her heaviest days) so i think she's showing more than normal :P
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:46 PM

oh, and JR, be on the lookout for the "evil" twin. If I learned 1 thing from TV it's that it'll cause nothing but havoc, and live to destroy the life of the "good" twin.
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:49 PM

she's definitely showing. she's a tiny specimen of an Asian (exactly 5 feet tall, and barely over 100LBS on her heaviest days) so i think she's showing more than normal :P


My wife's fairly petite as well (though not that small). She's only put on 20something pounds and it's ALL BABY. You can't even tell she's pregnant from behind but her tummy now enters the room a few beats before the rest of her :lol: Poor thing though, must be horribly uncomfortable... so I treat her pretty good.
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 03:51 PM

LOL way to put that :P congrats!


Thanks, I'm envisioning an epic battle where our twins save the world :lol:
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 04:00 PM

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Hmmm, not sure if this is a "hey guys, I need your advice" thread or a "hey everyone, I'm seeing a model" post.

I'm leaning towards the second option.
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 04:09 PM

Hmmm, not sure if this is a "hey guys, I need your advice" thread or a "hey everyone, I'm seeing an underage model" post.

I'm leaning towards the second option.

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Posted 19 October 2012 - 04:15 PM

As a man I say any chance to fool around with a hot girl is worthwhile and should be pursued ::D

As a soon to be father, if she was my daughter I'd be polishing my knife and sword collection EVERY time I saw you and would give you a friendly handshake every time I saw you (that would nearly crush your little fingers you worthless @#$%) :mad:


Mmmm...

Well not me personally, I've seen it destroy a family first hand, so unless my daughters (assuming I'll have one) boyfriend gives me a reason to dislike him I won't.
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 04:19 PM

Mmmm...

Well not me personally, I've seen it destroy a family first hand, so unless my daughters (assuming I'll have one) boyfriend gives me a reason to dislike him I won't.


Far too rational thinking for the father of a teenage girl :P
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Posted 19 October 2012 - 04:21 PM

fixed :P


She's not underage. ;)

Far too rational thinking for the father of a teenage girl :P


Maybe, but it's my belief that everyone deserves a chance to prove themselves.

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Posted 21 October 2012 - 07:15 PM

She's not underage. ;)

depends on where you are living.

Maybe, but it's my belief that everyone deserves a chance to prove themselves.

not when it's a university student dating my high school sophomore daughter.

Edited by avelanch, 21 October 2012 - 07:21 PM.

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Posted 22 October 2012 - 07:59 AM

depends on where you are living.


I assume he lives on the coast.

not when it's a university student dating my high school sophomore daughter.


What if he was a traveler of time and space and was a hero of the cosmos, having travelled to the darkest corners of the universe and slain the colossus of the void?
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Posted 22 October 2012 - 08:02 AM

I assume he lives on the coast.



What if he was a traveler of time and space and was a hero of the cosmos, having travelled to the darkest corners of the universe and slain the colossus of the void?

Doctor Who doesn't date humans, they are merely his companions.

Also, I don't give a crap. if he can travel through time, then he can travel to when she is the same age as him and he can date her then.
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Posted 22 October 2012 - 08:20 AM

if he can travel through time, then he can travel to when she is the same age as him and he can date her then.


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