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#31 Pouria

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:02 PM

I've had many urges to just end it all by jumping in front of a train, but I've always managed to convince my way out of it. It's unfortunate to hear that someone so young, lost her fight against depression/bullies.

R.I.P


But that is the coward's way out. I mean if it is this serious that you want to kill yourself, why not think about moving to another city, state/province or maybe another country. The best thing to do is just to delete all your facebook, twitter and any other social media and email account. Change cell phone number and move somewhere to start all over again. Committing suicide shouldn't even be an option.

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:02 PM

Hate to sound insensitive but it's your own damn fault if you build a reputation as the school slut.

Tragic story nonetheless, but this is just as much a mistake on her part.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:03 PM

Personally going through depression and anxiety myself, you feel like nobody understands how you feel. Anybody that's trying to judge her shut the frack up, and show some damn respect.
Learn how it feels to have people hate you and torture you every single day, then be told "suck it up". Ignorant bystanders are worse than the bullies themselves.


The absurdity about depression and "feeling like nobody understands" is that literally every single person on the planet experiences it to some degree at some point, and millions upon millions upon millions DO understand. The difficulty of depression, if not adolescence (the two are interchangable, as far as I'm concerned) is accepting the fact that you ain't no different at all, and that your sadness comes wholesale. Some of us make it through that realization, others don't.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:06 PM

Drama queens, so she got called a slut.. or fat or w/e who hasnt.. If you're gonna kill yourself over getting called a name.. honestly.. good riddance the world doesnt need that in it any more than it needs the bullies.

Im more inclined to feel bad for the train driver who now has to live knowing he killed a little girl.

"its too much.. I cant go on... " Suck it up yah feline..


Getting called a name???

She was basically tortured by these jerks everyday.

It's easy to suck it up. But imagine having to hear these words everyday knowing that this was going to happen everyday, everytime she was near these football players

Maybe hurtful words don't effect you but they can leave deep wounds in someone else
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:07 PM

I don't worry about them. However, you think that it won't affect them? After a person died because of something they did? I doubt that. Don't take it the wrong way. I don't want to try and make out like they're the victims here, Nothing could be further from the truth.


Nope, it won't affect them. They are probably laughing their ass off as we speak. If they cared they wouldn't constantly harass her at every turn. I doubt they feel any guilt over this tragedy.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:07 PM

I've had many urges to just end it all by jumping in front of a train, but I've always managed to convince my way out of it. It's unfortunate to hear that someone so young, lost her fight against depression/bullies.

R.I.P


Thank God you didn't do it. You're one of the funniest people on CDC, make sick sigs and seem like a great guy in general. Can't imagine how you are irl. Stay strong, bud.




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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:08 PM

The absurdity about depression and "feeling like nobody understands" is that literally every single person on the planet experiences it to some degree at some point, and millions upon millions upon millions DO understand. The difficulty of depression, if not adolescence (the two are interchangable, as far as I'm concerned) is accepting the fact that you ain't no different at all, and that your sadness comes wholesale. Some of us make it through that realization, others don't.


If it is clinical depression you are referring to... no, they most definitely do not.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:10 PM

The absurdity about depression and "feeling like nobody understands" is that literally every single person on the planet experiences it to some degree at some point, and millions upon millions upon millions DO understand. The difficulty of depression, if not adolescence (the two are interchangable, as far as I'm concerned) is accepting the fact that you ain't no different at all, and that your sadness comes wholesale. Some of us make it through that realization, others don't.


We get it, you've demonstrated time and time again that you don't have even the remotest understanding of the pathology of clinical/chronic depression and it's effects on some people. Just admit it and move on and let the discussion here continue without the blatant trolling.

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:11 PM

Hate to sound insensitive but it's your own damn fault if you build a reputation as the school slut.

Tragic story nonetheless, but this is just as much a mistake on her part.


I agree. If I knew a girl that banged 4 guys at once, I'd definitely consider her a slut. Probably wouldn't say it too her, though.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:13 PM

Hate to sound insensitive but it's your own damn fault if you build a reputation as the school slut.

Tragic story nonetheless, but this is just as much a mistake on her part.


Why should sexual promiscuity involve ridicule?
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:15 PM

Why should sexual promiscuity involve ridicule?


She was 15 and slept with 4 guys in one night. There is bound to be ridicule, and rightfully so.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:17 PM

You went a little far there...


I disagree. If she wasn't being bullied by these kids, would she still have taken her own life? Don't think so.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:18 PM

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Hate to sound insensitive but it's your own damn fault if you build a reputation as the school slut.

Tragic story nonetheless, but this is just as much a mistake on her part.


I agree. If I knew a girl that banged 4 guys at once, I'd definitely consider her a slut. Probably wouldn't say it too her, though.


And if the situation were reversed, a guy that banged 4 girls at once, he'd be a stud and all would bow low before him and sing his praises...yet a girl does and she's a slut, a pariah.....how much you want a bet that the very guys that 'banged' her in that situation were part of the bully pack. What heroes........

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:19 PM

Drama queens, so she got called a slut.. or fat or w/e who hasnt.. If you're gonna kill yourself over getting called a name.. honestly.. good riddance the world doesnt need that in it any more than it needs the bullies.

Im more inclined to feel bad for the train driver who now has to live knowing he killed a little girl.

"its too much.. I cant go on... " Suck it up yah feline..


As someone who was bullied their whole life until University, personally, I agree with your statement. I eventually just ignored them and realized how childish they were compared to me.

That girl, even though her death is tragic, damaged way too many peoples lives. (The train driver, passengers, friends, family and the bullies.) You don't need to kill yourself over something like this to make a point, no matter how low your life may seem. High School sucks, but once you get out into the real world, no one will care if you were a geek, jock or whatever.

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:21 PM

She was 15 and slept with 4 guys in one night. There is bound to be ridicule, and rightfully so.


I have no reason to believe that is true.

Why rightfully so? What is morally wrong with having multiple sex partners at the same time? Are you a prude?

A person's sexual activity does not speak to any part of their whole person. One would think in 2012 we could start to get over those societal hang-ups. Mother Teresa could be the town pump of Calcutta for all I care if she spends her days looking after the weak.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:21 PM

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:23 PM

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Meh, its sorta like Amanda Todd. You sorta deserve it if you post naked pics of yourself/sleep around alot (4 guys at once? lots of naked pictures and webcam photos? sleep around like its nothing at 15?). She chose her lifestyle and paid for it, then ended her life just because she couldn't handle her actions...
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:27 PM

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I am gob-smacked at the people in this thread blaming the victim of the bullying for her bullying. Saying she deserved everything she got. It dumbfounds me and makes me a little sad and scared for society today if these posters are an indication of young people today. Unfortunately, it gives a very clear indication of why bullying is still such an issue today and why kids are killing themselves because bullies have made their lives so horrible that death feels like the only escape. Unbelievable, just unbelievable. :sadno:

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:27 PM

And if the situation were reversed, a guy that banged 4 girls at once, he'd be a stud and all would bow low before him and sing his praises...yet a girl does and she's a slut, a pariah.....how much you want a bet that the very guys that 'banged' her in that situation were part of the bully pack. What heroes........


You've got me here, there's quite the double standard when it comes to promiscuity.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:27 PM

I have no reason to believe that is true.

Why rightfully so? What is morally wrong with having multiple sex partners at the same time? Are you a prude?

A person's sexual activity does not speak to any part of their whole person. One would think in 2012 we could start to get over those societal hang-ups. Mother Teresa could be the town pump of Calcutta for all I care if she spends her days looking after the weak.


So if your 15 year old daughter told you she had sex with 4 guys at one time you would be 100% supportive?
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:30 PM

So if your 15 year old daughter told you she had sex with 4 guys at one time you would be 100% supportive?


No, I would council her on the physical dangers of such activity and make sure she is aware how ignorant and mean certain people who will disagree with that choice might be to her.

That's a far cry from deciding she is debased and worthy of public scorn.

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:33 PM

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"you're a prude if you're morally opposed to a 15 year old girl being gang banged by 4 older football players"
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:34 PM

"you're a prude if you're morally opposed to a 15 year old girl being gang banged by 4 older football players"


Words to live by.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:36 PM

No, I would council her on the physical dangers of such activity and make sure she is aware how ignorant and mean certain people who will disagree with that choice might be to her.

That's a far cry from deciding she is debased and worthy of public scorn.


When someone deviates from societal norms they are defined as weird or abnormal.

It is not a societal norm to engage in intercourse with multiple partners at the age of 15.

Do you mean to say that when in high school you didn't snicker behind the back of the greasy kid across the hall?
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:38 PM

"you're a prude if you're morally opposed to a 15 year old girl being gang banged by 4 older football players"


"you deserve to endure verbal abuse every day of your life if you're a 15 year old girl being gang banged by 4 older football players"

Where's the logic?

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:38 PM

When someone deviates from societal norms they are defined as weird or abnormal.

It is not a societal norm to engage in intercourse with multiple partners at the age of 15.

Do you mean to say that when in high school you didn't snicker behind the back of the greasy kid across the hall?


Moral of the story - if you're banging 4 guys at the age of 15, you deserve any ridicule you may receive.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:38 PM

"you're deserve to endure verbal abuse every day of your life if you're a 15 year old girl being gang banged by 4 older football players"

Where's the logic?


She should've thought about logic before she banged them.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:41 PM

When someone deviates from societal norms they are defined as weird or abnormal.

It is not a societal norm to engage in intercourse with multiple partners at the age of 15.

Do you mean to say that when in high school you didn't snicker behind the back of the greasy kid across the hall?


Deviating from societal norms does not excuse abuse of that person. What is more deviant? Sexual acts or tormenting someone who has done no one else any harm?

Obviously a large difference here than snickering behind the back of someone. And, no, I did not.




She should've thought about logic before she banged them.


Again, she did harm to whom?

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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:42 PM

And to clarify.

She shouldn't have done what she did.

Did she deserve ridicule? Yes. Should they have ridiculed her? No, that goes against common decency.
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Posted 25 October 2012 - 08:43 PM

The absurdity about depression and "feeling like nobody understands" is that literally every single person on the planet experiences it to some degree at some point, and millions upon millions upon millions DO understand. The difficulty of depression, if not adolescence (the two are interchangable, as far as I'm concerned) is accepting the fact that you ain't no different at all, and that your sadness comes wholesale. Some of us make it through that realization, others don't.

Aaaaand there goes your credibility.
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