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#1 Biasbieksa

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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:14 PM

Im 21. Shes 23. Going to a movie. Any advice on dating an older woman. Advice is appreciated. Jokes are encouraged.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:16 PM

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Talk about Barbra Streisand or Cher.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:16 PM

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That is not an older woman..

1st thought is going to a movie for a first date is just a terrible idea, what's the point ?

I say take her downtown for dinner, maybe if you want to avoid talking go to the granville island theater sports ? At least you can get involved in the show together and have fun.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:17 PM

If she doesn't put out after the movie, kick errr to the curb
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:17 PM

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you call that an older woman????
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:19 PM

Love the responses guys. Don't wanna drive downtown for dinner. Heck don't even want to do dinner. I am a little nervous unfortunately.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:24 PM

Well, She's may or may not be into Justin Beiber. Once you find that out you will know how to act. If she is, than its just like the younger girls you may have been on a date with. Just make sure you get her home before 10.

If she doesn't like him, than be honest, and yourself. Don't be a tool and try to play her. Again be honest and upfront about what you are looking for.

A good tip is at dinner tell her she can order anything on the menu. If shes a gold digger she will order expensive things. If she's down to earth she will probably get something reasonable. This will tell you she's not out to use you.

In my experiences even if she takes you for a $50 dinner and you figure her out, in the long run you will save yourself a ton of money and heartache.
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Hockey season must be back on, the crazies are coming out again....

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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:26 PM

You might as well stay at your respective homes and text each other cause that'd still be more communication than you would get from going to the movies on a first date.

But you know, if you are really going to do that go watch a horror. Gives her an excuse to cuddle up unless you're more scared than her lol.

Edited by rebob, 04 November 2012 - 10:27 PM.

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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:27 PM

That is not an older woman..
1st thought is going to a movie for a first date is just a terrible idea, what's the point ?
I say take her downtown for dinner, maybe if you want to avoid talking go to the Granville island theater sports? At least you can get involved in the show together and have fun.


Agreed with the point about the movie, but I don't think the OP should even have the idea about dating someone if he's not even going to talk to them during the process! Dating should be to get to know the person and to further discover that person's personality! IFF (if and only if) he's willing to I think he should really give her a chance and take the opportunity to talk with her while interacting over a fun activity. It won't be fun if they're going to act like two individuals instead of a couple by not talking to each other.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:27 PM

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Talk about Barbra Streisand or Cher.


Take her to Dennys and order the Seniors Slam. Talk about how Harper is a threat to our pension funds. Mention the Depends sale you read about in the Shoppers flyer you read while you were waiting for her.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:28 PM

im 21. I don't she will be gold digging me too hard
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:29 PM

im 21. I don't she will be gold digging me too hard


Well, you did come to the weirdest place to get advice from. Second, maybe give her a chance. You never know you may click with her.
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Hockey season must be back on, the crazies are coming out again....

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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:30 PM

Some particularly funny results here. Im going to be honest. This is what I was mostly hoping for. Tips for after the movie? Should I let her pay to make her feel superior? Girls dig that &%*
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:32 PM

Best dates i've ever been on is usually when the chick pays for dinner, drinks and condoms
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:33 PM

A movie is not a quality date. It's better to do something where you can actually get to know each other a little bit.

Although... I say that, but my first date with my wife was a movie.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:39 PM

Details: ive texted her for a while, and I believe its a good icebreaker. Talk before. After. Definitely not the morning. a 10 dollar ticket doesn't merit that.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:41 PM

Make sure to bring a couple pairs of Depends diapers and a baggy full of Werthers, just in case she forgets. She will see you as a kind gentlemen.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:53 PM

Just be yourself. If it doesn't work out in your favor, don't worry about it. Plenty of fish in the sea bud.

And right one for getting a 23 year old to go out with you as 21. That's something to be proud of bud.
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 10:57 PM

Details: ive texted her for a while, and I believe its a good icebreaker. Talk before. After. Definitely not the morning. a 10 dollar ticket doesn't merit that.


That whole thing you hear in movies and stuff about 'not calling the next day' or the 'three day rule' is complete BS. If you really connected with her, or she connected with you, you guys should feel comfortable talking to each other whenever. Not texting back the next day is awkward, and in my opinion kind of rude.

Also, two years older than you is not a huge age gap. Five years is when you start saying I'm seeing someone older.

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Posted 04 November 2012 - 11:28 PM

my girlfriend's 2.75 years older than me yet she's been the easiest to date out of the other girls I've dated who are my age. I've been with her nearly 2 years now and no one can ever guess we're nearly 3 years apart because she knows what she wants I know what I want and we get along superb. The thing about younger girls (our age) is that they don't know what they want, and their mind changes every few days. The best advice is treat it like you're dating someone your own age
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 11:32 PM

I gotta say, I like "older" women (if you think 2 years is older, lol). I've been hitting it off lately with someone that's 20 years old... I just turned 17. Just treat them normally and TBH, in my experience girls that are older are more down to earth and realistic.

Have a good time, and don't be too nervous!
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Posted 04 November 2012 - 11:37 PM

Im 21. Shes 23. Going to a movie. Any advice on dating an older woman. Advice is appreciated. Jokes are encouraged.

Go for drinks (alcoholic) to a low key bar, or lounge.
Going to a movie on the first date creates an awkward situation where you've just spent two hours together, but didn't say a single thing.
Drinks will loosen you both up, and you'll be fulfilling the purpose of the date. To talk, and get to know eachother.
Plus, if you're looking to get laid, drinks is the easiest way.
Don't go to the theatre. Trust me.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 12:19 AM

My advice is that there needs to be something more than just a movie. Dinner before or drinks after. Myself, I refuse to do movie on a first date, that's our chance to impress each other. It's hard to impress someone with two hours of silence
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 12:33 AM

Just give her my number. Someone her own age own and not a kid!!

Kidding aside, I would say don't listen to any of us. Even if you are nervous it's fine because its different. One thing you don't want to do is bore her.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 12:42 AM

Cook her dinner. Impress her with it if you can. Or better yet, get her to cook you dinner. If she cooks a good meal, she's a keeper.

Ladies, your mom/grandma was right. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 12:53 AM

At first I thought it was gonna be some 19 year old kid dating some 35+ chick, lol.

Some details about the girl might be useful if you want an accurate answer. Eg. if she hates sports, obviously don't bring her to a sports bar to watch the game.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 01:42 AM

Just be yourself and don't be someone who you aren't. Seen alot of guys try to impress the girl only to be left with nothing and a path of shame. You should have found out what are her favorite things to do and her interests, go from there. Make it a great night and something you both can remember for a long time for a lasting impression. Don't post on cdc ever again, most of this is common sense just shows how insecure you are about yourself. Relax you will do fine.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 02:17 AM

I gotta say, I like "older" women (if you think 2 years is older, lol). I've been hitting it off lately with someone that's 20 years old... I just turned 17. Just treat them normally and TBH, in my experience girls that are older are more down to earth and realistic.

Have a good time, and don't be too nervous!


You just ragged on him for a year less difference than yours. Sad man.

I mean I understand how being in high school and going on a date with someone who is all growed up is as if its huge. It isin't at all, either things work or they don't.
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Hockey season must be back on, the crazies are coming out again....

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Posted 05 November 2012 - 02:30 AM

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Fix your language settings so you can use proper question marks.
That'll get her hot.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 02:35 AM

You just ragged on him for a year less difference than yours. Sad man.

I mean I understand how being in high school and going on a date with someone who is all growed up is as if its huge. It isin't at all, either things work or they don't.


It was a joke dude. I wasn't calling the 20 year old "old" either.
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