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#31 aeromotacanucks

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Posted 05 November 2012 - 08:37 AM

5 basic things:

1) HAVE A NICE CONVERSATION WITH HER. Listen Her Ideas, plans etc. give good Ideas and show interest. some nice jokes involving the subject is also recomended...


2) RESPECT HER AS A PERSON NOT AS AN OBJECT. Don´t be exited to have a kiss or sex, things like this will happen naturally. don´t force her, admire her as a princess or as a good diamont. say some good things about her not only about her body!


3) BE MATURE! Show how good you are and your qualities. many girls like a man focused and interested on her not only on her body. be honest is nice but you don´t have to tell all your life. it´s boring. tell things that you really like. some funny things or adventures that you had is very recomended...


4) DON´T THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT THE NEXT DATE! enjoy every second with her! if it´s your last date with her ok. at least you had a nice moment with her. if you will see her again that´s nice! don´t rush things!


5) BE ROMANTIC BUT NOT TOO MUCH! good women like romance, some flowers or a good speech really shows that you know how be fancy. a "My day is now complete because I saw you" or something like this really breaks the ice. do this because you want and not because you want something in return...




GIRL is one thing...

WOMAN is another thing...
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 08:53 AM

When I saw older woman I was thinking you were 21 and she was like 40 lol
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 09:10 AM

the reality is that you are the same age.......approx. She is probably just as nervous as you, so make her feel comfortable and safe.

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Posted 05 November 2012 - 09:12 AM

Go for drinks (alcoholic) to a low key bar, or lounge.
Going to a movie on the first date creates an awkward situation where you've just spent two hours together, but didn't say a single thing.
Drinks will loosen you both up, and you'll be fulfilling the purpose of the date. To talk, and get to know eachother.
Plus, if you're looking to get laid, drinks is the easiest way.
Don't go to the theatre. Trust me.


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Posted 05 November 2012 - 09:23 AM

Damn! She's old enough to be your mother!

No, 'older' woman usually applies to women 15+ years older than you, not 2.

My advise is actually find a 30+ woman, they have ... experience and can do things that will make your head spin!
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 09:29 AM

Well, She's may or may not be into Justin Beiber. Once you find that out you will know how to act. If she is, than its just like the younger girls you may have been on a date with. Just make sure you get her home before 10.

If she doesn't like him, than be honest, and yourself. Don't be a tool and try to play her. Again be honest and upfront about what you are looking for.

A good tip is at dinner tell her she can order anything on the menu. If shes a gold digger she will order expensive things. If she's down to earth she will probably get something reasonable. This will tell you she's not out to use you.

In my experiences even if she takes you for a $50 dinner and you figure her out, in the long run you will save yourself a ton of money and heartache.


Yes, tell her she can order anything from the menu.....this is a given. oh yeah best advice press shift 5 times and u can use a ? again. but honestly 21 to 23 there is no difference.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 09:43 AM

Movies is not that the best idea but it can work. Go somewhere before the movie. i would suggest something that involves drinks to help you loosen up and relax. Watch a movie that is relatively short...say under 100mins (you don't want the alcohol to completely wear off). After the movie, get some more drinks. Talk. Be funny. Ask questions; pretend you care about what's happening in her life. Flirt. Do some shots. Take her to your place. Sexy time. Post on CDC about how you shagged an "older" women.

Basically, just drink, be funny and charming, get laid.

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Posted 05 November 2012 - 09:52 AM

First step is to grow up and realize that two people in their early-20's are essentially the same age. You're not in high school anymore - there are no freshmen/sophomore distinctions in adulthood.

As an adult, you can make sure to present yourself as one. What are you doing with your life? What are your goals? Are you working towards a career? Do you have entrepreneurial ideas/aspirations? Think of adult things you can talk about (hint: don't mention CDC). You don't have to be uber-successful now (you're only 21), but you can give indication that at least you have a plan. Something that tells her that if you end up hitting it off, she won't get stuck with some directionless adolescent in an adult's body.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 11:18 AM

Avoid the movie, you are there to get to know each other and a movie is the polar opposite. I know people are into texting these days, but it is not meant for meaningful conversations. If you really like her and want to connect with her, she is not going to get that from texting, call her.

Stefan made a comment about going for a drink, which is a great idea. Find out what kind of music she likes, take her to a lounge with that type of music playing and you get to sit, relax and have a drink while actually having meaningful one on one conversations.

Be yourself, treat her with respect and if she is worth having in your life it will all work out.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 11:23 AM

Hahahahaah asking for advice on dating on CDC!
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 11:50 AM

avoid the theatre. spending 2 hours not talking is a waste of time.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 12:05 PM

Older women dating younger men only want one thing. You might as well put on a condom before the date.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 12:39 PM

Chloroform on a rag =good times

Older women dating younger men only want one thing. You might as well put on a condom before the date.


Dead on!
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 03:13 PM

Some particularly funny results here. Im going to be honest. This is what I was mostly hoping for. Tips for after the movie? Should I let her pay to make her feel superior? Girls dig that &%*


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1) saves you money.
2) shows her who's the boss.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 03:17 PM

my girlfriend's 2.75 years older than me yet she's been the easiest to date out of the other girls I've dated who are my age. I've been with her nearly 2 years now and no one can ever guess we're nearly 3 years apart because she knows what she wants I know what I want and we get along superb. The thing about younger girls (our age) is that they don't know what they want, and their mind changes every few days. The best advice is treat it like you're dating someone your own age


How old are you? Seven and a half?
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:14 PM

This thread is messed. If they are within ~5 years, they are in your age group.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:20 PM

Half your age and add seven, or some crap like that.

This thread is messed. If they are within ~5 years, they are in your age group.


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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:27 PM

LOL 23 is old women now.

Im old. Sucks.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:29 PM

Jesus, the first thing I recommend is brushing up on your CPR and purchasing a defibrillator, because she's so old that she'll probably die part way through your date.

Next you need to find a movie from her generation to keep her amused. Possibly Miracle on 34th Street. She'll be taken back by the nostalgia and she'll be yours for sure.

Next there's the problem of lubrication if she invites you into her house for some steaming coffee. At that age you're going to need lube. Lots of it.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:31 PM

Half your age and add seven, or some crap like that.


I thought it was half your age minus 5
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:33 PM

How old are you? Seven and a half?

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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:36 PM

show her your porn collection, thats always a good icebreaker.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:37 PM

Lol @ older woman..

I'm 28, my Gf is 44.

We don't live together though and are in fact on a break.

Give her a little more respect and leeway, it shows respect for her experience.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:39 PM

lol 2 year difference is old?
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:43 PM

Like everyone else said, movies make for awkward and terrible dates. Sitting next to someone for 2 hours and not saying a word or making weird eye contact from time to time is no good at all.


Honestly though, this thread has to be a troll thread, right? 23 years old is old now? The f***? lol
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:48 PM

Best thing to look for is hygiene and nutrition so she's a brilliant hottie in her 40's and beyond!!!!

I generally don't seek relationships with young girls (under 30) because for the most part, they are still learning and making stupid mistakes.

I love the solidarity of an established woman.

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Posted 05 November 2012 - 06:55 PM

Best thing to look for is hygiene and nutrition so she's a brilliant hottie in her 40's and beyond!!!!

I generally don't seek relationships with young girls (under 30) because for the most part, they are still learning and making stupid mistakes.

I love the solidarity of an established woman.

LOL.



That and her mom.

Oh, and an established woman will tend to expect you to be pulling your weight enough so that she does not have to suffer a standard of living decrease. The only real benefit of dating a woman that has more money than you is you don't run much of a risk of alimony if things go south.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 07:11 PM

You should go out with Stacey's mom.

I hear she has it going on.
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Posted 05 November 2012 - 08:34 PM

equally as stupid as asking this place on phone advise.
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Posted 06 November 2012 - 12:26 AM

Holy smokes! 2 whole years older! I thought the OP was talking about those cougars (human type) that date men in their twenties. ie. Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher.
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