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Should we have a revolution?

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And I guess the biological fathers get a bye then, while this guy pays to raise thier kids.

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really though if I was the father to three girls for 16 years, it would make zero difference to me whether or not they were "biologically" my daughters, they would be my daughters. Although on one hand I feel the father should have the choice as to supporting these girls on the other hand he made the wrong choice.

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Regardless of what the law believes, the mother's "road" is irrelevant to me when she cheated and lied. Life isn't fair but makes sense to make it as fair as possible. Right now clearly this favours the mother and her infidelity, and a system that screws the father (who already has no control over abortion and tends to lose in custody battles) for the sake of the child. It's an unnecessary burden upon the father when the mother lying is no fault of his. I hope it changes and these women are eventually forced to cope with their own harlotry. It makes no sense whatsoever that a man be burdened with caring for children he was mislead to believe was his and due to no fault of his own. He deserves the freedom of choice to vacate that situation. Unfortunate for the kids, but obviously that was no concern for the mother, who reaps the benefits of her transgressions at someone else's burden. The mother should be the one to pay entirely, and it be up to her to figure out who she opened her legs to, to chase after someone for baby money.

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It doesn't favour the mother and her infidelity. It favours the best interest of the children. The best interest of the children isn't for a father to bugger off.I'm not going to feel sorry for the mother and I'm not going to feel sorry for the father. These kids need to be loved and supported by the only parents they have ever known. This is really a no brainer.

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Agreed. What SHOULD happen (and likely won't) is that the husband should get a far greater percentage of shared assets (house etc) and not have to pay spousal support. The mother should be punished, not the children.

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The children should not be punished because of the mother. ]

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This I agree with. And you're right, it won't happen.Otherwise, it's a benefit to the children for the father to pay child support. It's not as if the now divorced mother with 4 children is going to be living it up "Gangnam Style" with child support. Her life is more crappy now than the father's life is.

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Goes the other way too, how many guys don't pay child support? Plenty of absentee fathers in the world.

I always date outside of my ethnic group. It will be easier to tell if the kid is yours. My 5 cents...now the penny is gone.

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Just had a thought - maybe Wetcoaster could confirm...

If this guy managed to find out who the actual biological fathers were, is there any legal basis for him to sue them for the the financial support he gave their offspring?

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I would support the mother receiving child support from the government that which she would have to pay back after they're adults / finds the father to pay etc.

That way the kids win and the mother pays.

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^^^And the father gets to bugger off, showing no support or care towards children he used to call family.

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this is a girls world and they are the nut crackers so get your nuts out.

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Goes the other way too, how many guys don't pay child support? Plenty of absentee fathers in the world.

I always date outside of my ethnic group. It will be easier to tell if the kid is yours. My 5 cents...now the penny is gone.

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Get with a girl make sure you use a dome or nine months later she'll be applying for child support just like a bank loan. If she's got a kid well sir i hoped you hid otherwise your bank account is a like a auction and she's starting the bid.

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Its times like these that make me glad I reproduce through mitosis.

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