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A Letter to Victoria’s Secret From a Father


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It has to exist in order to sell...you're putting the cart before the horse.

I agree 100% with this fathers' thinking....he neglected to mention that it sends the very wrong message to pedophiles as well. To "advertise" in a way that presents this train of thought as acceptable is irresponsible. How much lower can we go?....I find myself asking this pretty much daily.

GM....do you have kids? I don't suppose you do but that's a rather shortsighted view of things. It goes beyond "don't buy it"...it's about the fact that anyone would think there's an appropriate market for this. That it's a sorry state of affairs the day there is.

(Just read your comment DBTR...great minds?)

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I'm not complaining B)

But in all seriousness, I don't agree with it. But at the end of the day you're the person/parent buying the product. And if it's your choice to wear something like that, I have no problem with that.

It's exactly the same as alcohol, I can tell you brands like Palm Bay, and Cariboo aim their products at minors, because even though its illegal there is still a market.

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As an aside, I saw an elderly, yes elderly, lady wearing a pair of those "Juicy" pants.

I can't even possibly begin to tell you some of the thoughts that went through my head but the first one was "Yuck!", the second was "That's just wrong", and the third was "Not likely."

Maybe there is a market to exploit seniors for VS too?

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For those saying don't buy the product, I think you have to consider that these are teenage girls who most likely get an allowance. I really think parents need to be responsible for what their children buy, but at the same time, this puts parents (fathers in particular) in an uncomfortable position. I'm not a father, but I imagine I would be pretty uncomfortable monitoring my teenage daughters underwear purchases.

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I'm a bit conflicted on this. On one hand I believe it's parents' job (not the manufacturer) to better educate and guide their kids purchasing decisions on stuff like this and that in a perfect world the market for products like this simply wouldn't exist due to that parenting involvement and education of women's self worth not based on their sexuality. Problem = solved.

Sadly, we do not live in a perfect world where parents all parent at the same "level" and kids are bombarded daily by media with the message that they should emulate the current slutty pop star du jour etc. Hence the reality is there IS a market for 14-18 year old girls to buy and wear overtly sexual clothes, underwear etc. Hell I remember as a ~16 year old almost 20 years ago going to Halloween parties where significant numbers of girls seemed to be in a costume competition for who could "dress" like the sluttiest tramp (lingerie is apparently a suitable Halloween costume...).

Can you blame a company for fulfilling an existing market? Should we limit/govern the teen sexuality market similar to how we monitor tobacco or alcohol? There's no quick or easy answer there...

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I find it wildly ironic that you feel someone is 'imposing their views' yet your second sentence is no different than anything this man is trying to accomplish.

It is also shortsighted of you to assume that he is a 'bible thumper'. Despite being a reverend, nowhere in that post does he allude to religion. You do not have to hold religious beliefs to agree with his message. I am agnostic and I agree with him.

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I find it wildly ironic that you feel someone is 'imposing their views' yet your second sentence is no different than anything this man is trying to accomplish.

It is also shortsighted of you to assume that he is a 'bible thumper'. Despite being a reverend, nowhere in that post does he allude to religion. You do not have to hold religious beliefs to agree with his message. I am agnostic and I agree with him.

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And how is suggesting this Rev (who by the way, I'm sure doesn't believe or support gay marriage because homo sexuals are not natural and gays all go to Hell according to organized religion) choose not to buy these products as opposed to making sure no one in the entire world should make that decision for themselves "wildly ironic"?

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I think people should have the right to buy a product or ignore it? You know where they wouldn't allow these products to be sold? In places like Iran. You can go live there if you want. I prefer to live in a country that has freedoms. If I disagree with someone, I state my position and have a civil interaction. Something that seems a little beyond you.

And how is suggesting this Rev (who by the way, I'm sure doesn't believe or support gay marriage because homo sexuals are not natural and gays all go to Hell according to organized religion) choose not to buy these products as opposed to making sure no one in the entire world should make that decision for themselves "wildly ironic"?

Here's the thing though...when it comes to "making decisions" of sexuality and suggestive clothing and it involves kids, the options shouldn't even be there. I'm all for the freedom of choice, but to even put kids into the equation isn't something that anyone should be entertaining. Protection of kids trumps anything.

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