Bizarre Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 44 minutes ago, canuck204 said: I agree. BUTTTT I have to deal with her to some degree for the next 4 years whether I like it or not. It would probably cause a ton of drama/stress that could probably be avoided if I just leave it alone and comply for now. Haven't decided yet. You shouldn't stay with someone because of a dog or a condo but she expects to do whatever she wants and have everyone accomadate her. I'll most likely just take it day by day and if she starts giving me a hard time about anything I'll just deal with it then. Ugh lol. I think you should ask the dog if it wants to see her on the weekend. Let the dog decide. 2 Link to comment
canuck204 Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 13 minutes ago, Bizarre said: I think you should ask the dog if it wants to see her on the weekend. Let the dog decide. I know right? It's like a child. She probably does enjoy it more out there seeing how it's at a cabin in the bush at a lake, compared to in the city with me. I walk her and take her to dog parks but if a dog had to pick... lol.... Regardless of that I just don't think my ex deserves to see the dog. She made her decision to stay out there and that was her choice not mine. Just sucks that my dog could potentially lose one of its owners. They know who their owners are. ugh. Link to comment
GLASSJAW Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 (edited) nvm Edited December 2, 2016 by GLASSJAW Link to comment
Mainly Mattias Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 On 2016-12-02 at 10:20 AM, canuck204 said: I know right? It's like a child. She probably does enjoy it more out there seeing how it's at a cabin in the bush at a lake, compared to in the city with me. I walk her and take her to dog parks but if a dog had to pick... lol.... Regardless of that I just don't think my ex deserves to see the dog. She made her decision to stay out there and that was her choice not mine. Just sucks that my dog could potentially lose one of its owners. They know who their owners are. ugh. I knew a couple with a dog who got a divorce. I felt sorry for the dog. I wonder how many of my married contemporaries will end up divorcing once their kids grow up. Link to comment
canuck204 Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 Update: I think I have a solution... I am going to the bank to look at getting a loan to pay her off. As I said before she put the down payment on the condo and I made the higher income so that is how we justified that. Knowing that we(she) would lose her down payment if we had to sell early I decided to help her out and keep it. It wasn't a totally selfish gesture as I am accumulating equity in the condo and when the term is up I am going to make a good amount of money. I am going to offer her a cheque of what she put down on the place, and she will have to agree to sign herself out of the mortgage. The alternative will be to straight up sell. I was not aware that if one party wants to sell and the other doesn't, that the sale has to happen(weird, but good for me). My assumption is that she will take the cash, as who the hell wouldn't. Once I get that sorted out I am sure I will feel a lot better about things and I can address the dog on a day to day basis. I would no longer have to worry about repercussion of keeping the dog if she was being difficult, bitchy, or just unreasonable in general about anything. Ultimately I know my dog would like to see us both, but at that point it would depend on how my ex behaves. If shes rude and hard to deal with than I will have to leave her in the dust but ideally we can manage the dog and I could probably live with that. Part of me would feel guilty just taking the dog away with at least setting a plan in place and trying it out first... So wish me luck, I am hoping to have this condo business dealt with soon... Ugh. lol 3 Link to comment
Guest Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 Man, relationships are such a pain in the ass Link to comment
canuck204 Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 2 minutes ago, Incursio said: Man, relationships are such a pain in the ass Amen brotha. This has seriously made me reconsider my life plan. You think 8 years is long enough, to put all the eggs into one basket at poof. I am probably going to be that stereotypical guy who is scared to commit going forward, lol. #drugs 1 Link to comment
Cramarossa Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 1 hour ago, canuck204 said: Amen brotha. This has seriously made me reconsider my life plan. You think 8 years is long enough, to put all the eggs into one basket at poof. I am probably going to be that stereotypical guy who is scared to commit going forward, lol. #drugs What's weird is that today is actually my five year anniversary (woot!) and I've noticed that the longer we've been together the more I fear commitment, etc. I think it's because over time to develop a more realistic picture of who you are, who your mate is, etc. The longer we're together the less I want to get married (but I also don't want to leave). It's ok to have a healthy suspicion of commitment I think. It means you're being realistic imo. 2 Link to comment
Guest Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 (edited) 4 hours ago, canuck204 said: Amen brotha. This has seriously made me reconsider my life plan. You think 8 years is long enough, to put all the eggs into one basket at poof. I am probably going to be that stereotypical guy who is scared to commit going forward, lol. #drugs Hang in there man, time does heal. If it takes you a while to trust again, so be it. You'll commit again when you meet the right girl Edited December 5, 2016 by Guest Link to comment
Twilight Sparkle Posted December 6, 2016 Author Share Posted December 6, 2016 (edited) i pulled out my first gray nose hair. i'm... i'm not ready for this (T﹏T) Edited December 6, 2016 by Twilight Sparkle 2 Link to comment
Popular Post Cramarossa Posted December 14, 2016 Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2016 To any of you following my job app/interview saga...found out today I got the job! I get to do something science related again! 5 Link to comment
ShakyWalton Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 (edited) 2 hours ago, ThrustyPrusty89 said: To any of you following my job app/interview saga...found out today I got the job! I get to do something science related again! thats great..see all that worry for nothing...you aced it..congrats soon as you said they were phoning your references I knew you were in the running Edited December 15, 2016 by ShakyWalton 1 Link to comment
JM_ Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 On 12/6/2016 at 2:41 AM, Twilight Sparkle said: i pulled out my first gray nose hair. i'm... i'm not ready for this (T﹏T) Oh it gets worse, when the carpet starts matching the drapes. 1 Link to comment
Salacious Crumb Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 On 2016-12-06 at 2:41 AM, Twilight Sparkle said: i pulled out my first gray nose hair. i'm... i'm not ready for this (T﹏T) You are a young man - wait another 20 years. Those 'hairs' turn into nasal tusks. Pull 'em and instant tears TS. 1 Link to comment
TNucks1 Posted December 20, 2016 Share Posted December 20, 2016 won 75 bucks off 50 cents lol, went too the bar to play some free pool and spent my money on pull tabs and won. friggen rights. 1 Link to comment
babych Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 On 12/5/2016 at 10:42 AM, canuck204 said: Amen brotha. This has seriously made me reconsider my life plan. You think 8 years is long enough, to put all the eggs into one basket at poof. I am probably going to be that stereotypical guy who is scared to commit going forward, lol. #drugs lol, try 20 and then realizing this.. you're ahead of the game, my friend Link to comment
Master 112 Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) I yelled at and insulted a homeless person this morning and he tried to fight me. Sorry, Santa. Edited December 24, 2016 by One one two 2 Link to comment
Sean Monahan Posted December 25, 2016 Share Posted December 25, 2016 Confession- celebrating Christmas Eve by starting my 9th consecutive episode of Cops. Fascinating stuff. 3 Link to comment
Cramarossa Posted December 25, 2016 Share Posted December 25, 2016 Just now, Sean Monahan said: Confession- celebrating Christmas Eve by starting my 9th consecutive episode of Cops. Fascinating stuff. I'm alone in a hotel room celebrating by watching fifth episode of Locked Up. 'Tis the season! 2 Link to comment
mau5trap Posted December 25, 2016 Share Posted December 25, 2016 9 hours ago, One one two said: I yelled at and insulted a homeless person this morning and he tried to fight me. Sorry, Santa. tell us moar Link to comment
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