RMP2008 Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 I am kind of losing it here guys. I was rushed to the hospital last night with a eye bleeding uncontrollably after I fell on a wet surface at the Aquatic Center that I go to right onto the eye. The lifeguards there treated me but told me I would need to get stitches. After a long 4 hour wait, I got 8 stitches. My best friend was there at the center at the time, as we work out together. I had gotten out of the pool to check to see if he was at the gym yet, as I would stop swimming doing laps if he was there. Maybe, he is mad that I got out of the pool to check to see if he was there yet? We had plans to work out together in the gym. Anyway, he texts me last night if I needed anything and then when I didn't answer since my parents took my phone home with them with my gym bag, he texted my Dad to see if I was all right since he has my dad's cell My mom took stuff home with her and left just my dad and I at the hospital together, like my phone. My dad told me and I texted him back an update right away; Then, I called him to update him as soon as I got home from the hospital. He seemed like he couldn't get off the phone fast enough with me. Not sure what that was about. Anyway, he said to let him know how I was doing...Today, I texted him an update...and then some info on how I wouldn't be able to volunteer with the hockey team that we are a part of tonight 2 hours later due to the black eye. He ignored me both even though the messages show as R, i.e., received and read, on BBM. I don't understand why he would drop me as a friend because I got hurt? What did I do wrong? My last best friend died of a heart attack at just 28 and now this best friend drops me out of the blue...I can't take much more of this! I should add that he was going to Vancouver today from the interior with his minor hockey team but he wasn't leaving on the bus until 2 p.m. So, he had plenty of time to answer my texts at 10:49 and 12:12 p.m. I thought last night that he genuinely cared about me almost needing an ambulance-I had to convince the lifeguards to let my parents drive me to the hospital, as I gushed out blood. He acted like he cared last night and today he's dropped me forever. The Aquatic Center called my dad today to check up on me and they said "yeah, we all really like him here, hope he's OK and wanted to follow up on his injury yesterday." Why did they still like me and my best friend hates me now? What did I do wrong? Should I apologize to him? How do I get him to be my friend again?? And no, I graduated with honors from h.s. and at the top of my class in college; so I am not some social misfit. So confused and hurt...I couldn't help getting hurt...Maybe he's mad that I hurt myself, needed stitches and disrupted his workout? He even said he would have driven me to the hospital but I didn't want to disrupt his workout since he was leaving for Vancouver today. WTF... Link to comment
Gross-Misconduct Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 cool story bro Link to comment
GLASSJAW Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 that post made me realize how truly rotten my attention span is Link to comment
Gross-Misconduct Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 that post made me realize how truly rotten my attention span is you didnt miss much Link to comment
Watermelon Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Your overreacting dude. Maybe this person lost their phone or it ran out of charge or they took a nap/ were doing something and forgot their phone. Calm down Link to comment
drummer4now Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 I am kind of losing it here guys. I was rushed to the hospital last night with a eye bleeding uncontrollably after I fell on a wet surface at the Aquatic Center that I go to right onto the eye. The lifeguards there treated me but told me I would need to get stitches. After a long 4 hour wait, I got 8 stitches. My best friend was there at the center at the time, as we work out together. I had gotten out of the pool to check to see if he was at the gym yet, as I would stop swimming doing laps if he was there. Maybe, he is mad that I got out of the pool to check to see if he was there yet? We had plans to work out together in the gym. Anyway, he texts me last night if I needed anything and then when I didn't answer since my parents took my phone home with them with my gym bag, he texted my Dad to see if I was all right since he has my dad's cell My mom took stuff home with her and left just my dad and I at the hospital together, like my phone. My dad told me and I texted him back an update right away; Then, I called him to update him as soon as I got home from the hospital. He seemed like he couldn't get off the phone fast enough with me. Not sure what that was about. Anyway, he said to let him know how I was doing...Today, I texted him an update...and then some info on how I wouldn't be able to volunteer with the hockey team that we are a part of tonight 2 hours later due to the black eye. He ignored me both even though the messages show as R, i.e., received and read, on BBM. I don't understand why he would drop me as a friend because I got hurt? What did I do wrong? My last best friend died of a heart attack at just 28 and now this best friend drops me out of the blue...I can't take much more of this! I should add that he was going to Vancouver today from the interior with his minor hockey team but he wasn't leaving on the bus until 2 p.m. So, he had plenty of time to answer my texts at 10:49 and 12:12 p.m. I thought last night that he genuinely cared about me almost needing an ambulance-I had to convince the lifeguards to let my parents drive me to the hospital, as I gushed out blood. He acted like he cared last night and today he's dropped me forever. The Aquatic Center called my dad today to check up on me and they said "yeah, we all really like him here, hope he's OK and wanted to follow up on his injury yesterday." Why did they still like me and my best friend hates me now? What did I do wrong? Should I apologize to him? How do I get him to be my friend again?? And no, I graduated with honors from h.s. and at the top of my class in college; so I am not some social misfit. So confused and hurt...I couldn't help getting hurt...Maybe he's mad that I hurt myself, needed stitches and disrupted his workout? He even said he would have driven me to the hospital but I didn't want to disrupt his workout since he was leaving for Vancouver today. WTF... RussianFan... Link to comment
The Bookie Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 I can't even fathom how that situation would play out. You're bleeding from your eye, your friend tries to call an ambulance, you encourage him to continue his workout, so he calls your mom? Link to comment
RonMexico Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Have you ever told your best friend that you are in love with him? Link to comment
ILL BILL NECRO Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Have you ever told your best friend that you are in love with him? This ^^^^ Link to comment
BanTSN Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 CDC is here to help! Link to comment
Tystick Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 ^^^ Not too much help above I see. Alright here's the deal man, you're coming across as obsessive. I've been in your shoes before. You're most likely this way because you're insecure and you care what people think of you. Don't beat yourself up over it, as long as you recognize that and begin to work on yourself things will change. Regarding your story, you did nothing wrong and I can tell you right now you're over-thinking it. The reality is there's endless scenarios as to why he didn't respond and it sounds like you picked one and started believing it. If it helps, talk to him openly and get some clarity. If he's your friend he cares about you and the situation you're in, maybe something came up? Please listen to me and try to relax from here on out. Stay out of your mind and in the present moment. Cheers buddy. Link to comment
Horny Manatee Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Nice to see you again. I figured you were 15 until you mentioned the part about your old bff passing at 28... Link to comment
Chalky Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Maybe, he is mad that I got out of the pool to check to see if he was there yet? For sure that's it. You should NEVER check if the person you are meeting is there. Link to comment
Down by the River Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 that post made me realize how truly rotten my attention span is If your short attention span meant that you didn't read the whole story, you should apologize to it for calling it rotten. Link to comment
Riviera82 Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 How long was your relationship with him? Link to comment
Warhippy Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Can I have some context here please? OP is a teenager yes? And...female or? Link to comment
Dral Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Not everything is about you (in fact, almost nothing is about you) he's probably got his own shit to deal with Link to comment
MJDDawg Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 RussianFan... My first reaction as well. This has RussianFan written all over it. Link to comment
Gross-Misconduct Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 trollollollo Link to comment
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