Honestly brother I was told that when I give a Shrubbery it has no effect apart from the person actually receiving it.
I am really sorry I am not around, I am flat ATM, plus it is warmish, I can't keep up at the best of times, through September - October.
Had another kick in the guts today, found out one of my friends just found out he has cancer, after dropping off my flowers, I went to hang with him for a few hours.
Nothing much I can say.
I am really sorry for letting everyone down and not participating more.