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Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
oh... i have never been defending religion in this thread... sorry for the miscommunication.... I also disagree, many churches change their beliefs, however it usually takes time we are talking it took what 65 years after the first pride movement? im not an expert but change happens in religion. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
i think this isnt fair..... i know you dont mean any harm. but let me tell you its not an advantage to be a minority. I have seen first hand the violence and discrimination with some of my friends. I myself am a minority because i suffer from severe mental illness, i'm constantly discriminated against, people that have barely just met me called me a murderer..... I have been refused EI assistance because of my illness, but also not given medical assistance either..... if i feel unwell and seek help many doctors wont provide unless you sign your rights under their authority for a minimum of thirty days... im forced to take medications that causes weight gain, bad breath and foggy memories, my senses are dulled but im less likely to show irregular emotions or any emotions. my life expectancy is 62. I don't want to be on medications, but i have too or the govenment will stop supporting me during my flare ups where despite my meds i act irregular and get fired. Yes you can legally and easily fire someone with mental illness without repercussions, as we will soon see in the video analysis coach. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
you have no idea what you are talking about. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
I support womens rights, but im not going to go march, thats their cause and they dont need my help, if they did they would ask me. just like I have never been asked to support and wear pride colors by my LGBTQ friends, my guess is i have much more than the majority of you of you by the way. until someone asks for my help, i assume they got this on their own, because frankly im not an expert on issues i am not an expert of and secondly its none of my business. I should focus my energy on movements that i understand first hand that way my time is more effective. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
do not lie and pretend you support him. the things you mentioned in this thread are pretty nasty -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
guess we better close up the borders to 50% of the population until they learn to accept they are wrong..... im sure canada will thrive during this time, we can be the LGBTQ HUB of the world. oh you are being repressed by the taliban and need refuge? what is your religion? have you accepted gay marriage? will you wear pride colors and participate in events mandatory? no? sorry enjoy your persecution -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
sounds like your someone that doesnt support alot of people alf. guess we are going to have send alot of people back home. this just in canadas economy collapses because a man didnt wear a rainbow shirt. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
weee.............. people that refuse to acknowledge that they are just as harmful as the perpetrator they accuse............................... my intoloerance is superior to others people intolerance and im right because....................................... science -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
oh? i see... your right... calling him a bigot.... yup thats the way..... wow your so smart and brave. come everyone shame people that dont agree with you, we will change the world and it will be a magical land without intolerance. Shaming people does not work, frankly it does the opposite.... you are effectively slowing down change, you are hurting the pride movement. spend your time promoting the good things and only positive thing will come of it... you are not helping anyone by shaming this man -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
changes in society take time to change. you are not going to change it overnight or in a year or 2,3,4,5,6,7,8,910.... TRY DECADES!!!!! many societies used to think young marriages were perfectly fine, now its gone completely the opposite.... and i think that practise was around for a long long time. we used to criminalize and shame drug addicts but now we try to help them, that too took a long long time..... we used to lock up and and perform extreme practises on our mentally ill, but that changed and it took a long, long, time. stop being so impatient, some people will change faster than others especially people like Provorov. you are acting like a child that didnt get his candy -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
LOL, if you dont think he didnt get the go ahead before the event you are seriously out of touch. they arent going to punish the guy because im guessing that torts decided fro him or told his boss beforehand -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
you brought up race, i dont understand why? if he was of a different race would it make a difference? -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
YIKES!!!! are you a racist? -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
whose veil mine? I have friends that are homosexual and i do not shame or even try to dissuade him from speaking freely about his adventures, I attended his wedding and see him whenever he is in town. I could care less what sex you identify as or what sex you are attracted to. I just dont think its right to be shaming this man for not wearing a rainbow jersey. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
if only a few people shame him, he is still being shamed. I think fairly challenging him would look like inviting him to one of our more accepting churches and speak to some of our Christian priests. it wouldnt involve calling him a Bigot or insulting his religion -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
well guess what buckeroo, my guess is he choose to not particpate in the event because of his culture and how he was not indoctrinated into our society from birth. infact he was born into a russian society and raised as a russian orthodox christian. should we throw him in jail because he's diffrent? -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
again you used the word challenged. you are not challenging this man, you actively shaming him -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
I disagree. i think he is being challenged for his spirtuality that also does not accept LGBTQ unions. LOL you used the word challenged, nice. lets not pretend that people are merely challenging him. Honestly, he said he is okay with peoples choices. I think he honours his churches wishes more than the pride movement so when presented the opportunity he chose to respect his religion. Frankly, many LGBTQ+ members do not come out because of fear of retribution from family and friends. we should not expect a member of the russian orthodox church to support pride movements, because it may cause extreme discomfort in his life. not wearing a rainbow hockey stick does not cause the LGBTQ+ community harm. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
but in his culture it does not teach and preach acceptance of pride movements to the same degree as ours. maybe you might think that he was raised differently than us? what should we do to change that? Shame him until he relents? -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
he isnt? oh is he being celebrated? -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
it has many different meanings for different types of the punishment's handed out. for this instance i consider it shaming a person for not growing up in the same society as their own. you probably wouldnt go to North Sentinel Island and be very popular. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
Cancel culture is inherently wrong because it slows down change. shaming people often has the effect of causing the person to feel less apart from society, and generally does not teach anything to that individual. infact the same thing that you are accusing people of "intolerance" is the same act that you are doing. again, an eye for an eye leaves us both blind. -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
being naturally predisposed to enjoy something does not mean you do not have the choice to act on it. there are many people that enjoy kinks and persuasions that do not act on them because they are deemed unacceptable. no one is doomed to their sexuality because of genetics. However, being a sexual member of the LGBTQ+ society is not unlawful and is generally accepted by most north americans. Let us be happy that all of us humans can control our urges as long as we stay mentally well I want to remind many of you that sexual preferences that are accepted in society change and adapt with time. and I have been preaching in this thread that Societal changes takes Generations and generations of time before they become accepted (especially because many older generations do not change their views). Furthermore, certain societies will take longer to adapt to changes than others, for good example take members of the Russian orthodox church. Why? because their country was communist up to 1991 and was a very exclusive society that did not accept western ideologies. 5% of Russia still supports communism. We cannot expect changes to occur to peoples views and ideologies overnight and frankly shaming them has the reverse effect so infact what you are doing is slowing down change. people that shame these individuals are slowing down change and in fact are hurting pride movements -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
oh i enjoy trying to teach people that hate is not the solution. but if you really want to keep shaming people/organizations on this thread i will not attempt to stop you or report you for your poor behavior. it really is up to the individual on how we spend our time, I rather spend my time educating people on how hate/shaming is not a effective tool. in fact acting out in anger actually increases your likelihood of making immediate poor decisions and also leads to increased risks of cardiovascular events. Angry people are more likely to have addictions, depression and anxiety. i will say it again, an eye for an eye leaves us both blind. you don't have to sit there and do nothing about how you don't like how some people are treated. But there is much better uses of your time to help achieve your goal than shaming the people and organizations that have different views than you -
Provorov declines pre-game pride night skate
Bad_BOI_pete replied to Slegr's topic in General Hockey Discussion
@Shayster007 ill give you a good example of how defending people by shaming others is a waste of time. lets say two students are running for class president. each student makes 2 campaign posters each day and posts them after day 10 they each have twenty posters posted each. one student then decides to spend his time defacing 2 posters of his opponents and creating only 1 new poster each day for themselves. the other student decides to spend his time creating flyers that they hand out personally and try to have a one on one with their peers promoting acceptance and inclusion. studies show that the smear campaign will have little effect. and with brilliant forethought and afterthought the second student will likely gain the majority of votes of people that have been bullied because of being different of the majority. its kind of like a double edged sword, the smear campaign gets turned on its face and used against the student that used that strategy