Then you're passion for winning is blinding you to the bigger picture.
You may want this team to win one game, but I want them to win the cup. That's the difference.
If you can sit there and honestly tell me that this team has the makings of a cup winner, I'd call you a liar. And if there's no cup in the cards for the team this yea, then I want us to improve our future chances at one, even if it is a small improvement to them, like a slightly better pick.