I don't let others attempt to use emotional leverage over me, be it in real life, over the internet, or through any other module of communication.
I'm not being a jerk over my prior ignorance to your grievance. I'm a little upset that you're playing the victim and trying to single me out as some sort of trigger to that grievance, which I had no clue about. Your posts were hostile toward me when I had done nothing wrong. With that in mind, I'm not about to feel bad about having posted something really quite harmless and entirely on topic.
Simply put, this isn't a support network. I'm not going to treat it as such, nor am I going to do the opposite and attempt to bring out any sort of reaction from you. This is a lighthearted thread. I was keeping it so in my initial posts here today and beyond this post I'm not going to comment on something entirely unrelated to the subject.
Sorry about your loss.