[Whats your favourite current saying?]

12 hours ago, BamaRN said:

Let's get it?

Yeah just these soundcloud rappers be saying it like that these days. Something I can't help myself to say when I'm drinking with friends.

 

[Whats your favourite current saying?]

ESSSSKETITTTTT

 

 

Let's see if anyone on here knows this one lol.

[***The UFC/MMA THREAD***]

16 minutes ago, TheHitman said:

GSP doesn't even deserve a title shot, but the champion should get the payday so Woodley gets it. Going to be a boring fight considering GSP/Woodley are similar champions. Stick GSP in there with Wonderboy or Lawler, someone that'll actually try to drag an exciting fight out of GSP. 

Jones should move up to heavyweight after the Gustavsson rematch, there's not much left for him to do. LHW is a really weak division outside of DC and Jones. 

Eh someone who leaves the sport on top of his game known as one of the best P4P fighters probably does deserve a rematch when he comes back. I just don't think Woodley deserves that kind of a moneyfight. I would argue that GSP has been known as a all around fighter who out-classes his opponents and it's not always the most entertaining but Woodley straight up fled the whole time. Broke a record for the least amount of strikes thrown ever. Definitely some similarities, but I feel they're different. I personally don't even really look forward to seeing GSP come back. His last 2 fights before his break were near-misses. Does nothing for me.

 

Jones needs to get back to power-lifting and move up to heavyweight I agree. A rematch with Gustavvson would be great, and maybe a fight with Rumble if he came back and won a fight first. He was interviewed today about being into coming back for the right amount of money to fight against Jones.

[***The UFC/MMA THREAD***]

Tyron Woodley deserves all of the criticism he gets. He fights to not lose now that he is a champion. Dana White is right when he $&!#s on him. Woodley can't carry a card. Imagine that card without the main event? He doesn't deserve GSP. 

 

The result of the Lawler/Cerrone fight doesn't hurt or really improve either fights stock. Was a close fight, an entertaining one at that. 

 

Cyborg rekt another innocent bystander and I'm happy she is finally going to get the respect she deserves.

 

Jon Jones destroyed DC I loved every second of it. Nothing against DC but now we get to watch Jones do work on all of the wannabes. Would love to see the Gusfavsson rematch. The Lesnar fight does less for me than the Floyd/McGregor fight but I'd still watch both.

[confessions]

On 12/23/2016 at 10:18 PM, babych said:

lol, try 20 and then realizing this.. you're ahead of the game, my friend

 

Yeah man, that's my biggest fear at this point. I don't even know if I should be giving anyone the chance to do that. This all probably has something to with my abandonment issues when I was a kid. I want someone to be close with like all of us do, but I'm scared to let someone in that close because of my fear of being abandoned again. Bruh.

 

THANKS MOM 

[confessions]

2 minutes ago, Incursio said:

Man, relationships are such a pain in the ass

Amen brotha. This has seriously made me reconsider my life plan. You think 8 years is long enough, to put all the eggs into one basket at poof. 

 

I am probably going to be that stereotypical guy who is scared to commit going forward, lol. 

 

#drugs

[confessions]

Update: 

 

I think I have a solution... 

 

I am going to the bank to look at getting a loan to pay her off. As I said before she put the down payment on the condo and I made the higher income so that is how we justified that. Knowing that we(she) would lose her down payment if we had to sell early I decided to help her out and keep it. It wasn't a totally selfish gesture as I am accumulating equity in the condo and when the term is up I am going to make a good amount of money. 

 

I am going to offer her a cheque of what she put down on the place, and she will have to agree to sign herself out of the mortgage.

The alternative will be to straight up sell. I was not aware that if one party wants to sell and the other doesn't, that the sale has to happen(weird, but good for me).

 

My assumption is that she will take the cash, as who the hell wouldn't. 

 

Once I get that sorted out I am sure I will feel a lot better about things and I can address the dog on a day to day basis. I would no longer have to worry about repercussion of keeping the dog if she was being difficult, bitchy, or just unreasonable in general about anything.

 

Ultimately I know my dog would like to see us both, but at that point it would depend on how my ex behaves. If shes rude and hard to deal with than I will have to leave her in the dust but ideally we can manage the dog and I could probably live with that. Part of me would feel guilty just taking the dog away with at least setting a plan in place and trying it out first...

 

So wish me luck, I am hoping to have this condo business dealt with soon...

 

Ugh. lol

[confessions]

13 minutes ago, Bizarre said:

I think you should ask the dog if it wants to see her on the weekend. Let the dog decide.

I know right? It's like a child. She probably does enjoy it more out there seeing how it's at a cabin in the bush at a lake, compared to in the city with me. I walk her and take her to dog parks but if a dog had to pick... lol....

 

Regardless of that I just don't think my ex deserves to see the dog. She made her decision to stay out there and that was her choice not mine. Just sucks that my dog could potentially lose one of its owners. They know who their owners are. 

 

ugh.

[confessions]

2 minutes ago, riffraff said:

This is your own answer the way I see it.

 

done.

I agree. BUTTTT I have to deal with her to some degree for the next 4 years whether I like it or not. It would probably cause a ton of drama/stress that could probably be avoided if I just leave it alone and comply for now. 

 

Haven't decided yet. You shouldn't stay with someone because of a dog or a condo but she expects to do whatever she wants and have everyone accomadate her. I'll most likely just take it day by day and if she starts giving me a hard time about anything I'll just deal with it then. Ugh lol.

[confessions]

12 hours ago, riffraff said:

 

The business tie is binding for sure.

 

i suppose, if you feel like it is just easier to "share" the dog then it may be the way to go.  Has she been upset by not seeing the dog?  How long have you both looked after the dog together?  You mentioned it was "your" dog.

 

i have a feelings she would probably get over it.

 

maybe explain to her that you're not comfortable with interacting with her outside of the condo deal. Tell her it hinders you in "moving on"....see how she reacts and go from there.

Well my stance is that we broke up because we no longer had the same idea on what our futures held. Mine is still the same as when we bought our condo and got the dog. Live in the city and blah blah. She broke her commitment to that plan which involves the dog. Long story short she took a job out of town and was living at her families cabin and when it was time to come home in the fall she gave up and decided to stay out there. That's where I decided that if push comes to shove its my dog. She can't just bail and expect the dog. I haven't moved anywhere and that seems reasonable to me. 

 

Again I am glad we broke up, we had a lot of issues over a long period of time that I am so glad I don't have to deal with anymore. The give and take part of the relationship was exhausting but I figured things would work themselves out and we'd be okay. Clearly not the case so I am ultimately just relieved. A lot of resentment and trust issues from past blips over the 8 years that I battled with but at the end of the day I am happy I didn't just stay quiet and go on miserably.

 

I tried to give her the whole condo but she didn't want the financial "burden" lol. Basically I am doing her a huge service by taking care of the condo. I will make money off the condo in 4 years but I would have been just as glad to sell it and break even. I had a way higher income but she made the down payment. So it would not have affected me by selling.

 

Just bull$&!#, total bull$&!#. I shouldn't care what she is up to at this point but there are still some feels when I think about her meeting someone new. Hate my brain most of the time. &^@#ing humans. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[confessions]

1 hour ago, Beeekz37 said:

Sounds like a similar situation my girlfriend was in. Other relationship lasted 6 years and for 2 years after it was shared custody with the dog (which ended not that long ago). The only nice thing about the shared custody was when the pup tore her ccl and had to have tplo surgery. Had we done it locally, it would have been over $5,000. Instead, she drove to Washington state university where they have a vet program. We got the surgery done for  $3,000, of which half was paid for by her ex (the only time I was happy about sharing the dog with him). 

 

We bought a house together a year and a half ago and I have always wondered what would happen if we split. Sounds like you are living the nightmare I fear. Sorry to hear, bud.

It's been okay, as half of the expenses are paid by her, but other than that I am doing 100% of the work as landlord. It's complicated but im making do. Just the feels. Pretty resentful inside but it's probably smarter to just deal with it until I can sell the place. &^@# sake. lol

[confessions]

1 minute ago, riffraff said:

 

Put on your pants.  Tell her it's your dog.  Keep the dog. End of story.

I have already established that. I am wondering if it is unreasonable to not let her see the dog. Do I put my foot down based on principle? The other issue is that I have to deal with her to some degree for the next 4 years until we can sell the condo. Is it worth the stink to stop letting her see the dog when I'll have her probably attempting to make my life miserable by doing that or should I continue status quo until I can actually cut ties with her after the condo sells... 

 

If I didnt have the condo to worry about I would have already taken the dog for good and gone on with my life but I'm kinda stuck for now so I dunno.

[confessions]

Recently split with "the love of my life". 

 

Relationship was definitely over and there was nothing left for us, but I don't regret it at all. Had a good run almost 8 years, but people change and life goes on.

 

$&!#ty part is we got a dog, and a condo together a year before we split.

 

Financial bull$&!# is forcing us to rent out the condo until our term is up to prevent a loss as it was our first mortgage and would lose all of our down payment and any equity if we sold, which is not allowing full disconnect of communication as there is $&!# to deal with from time to time.

 

Also our dog. It's my dog at the end of the day but am I evil if I draw a line and just keep my dog? She ultimately broke her commitment to the relationship plan we made when we got the dog and condo so that's where I form that opinion. She moved out of town and expected me to be fine with it and that's basically why we broke up. So now I send the dog out to her every weekend type of bull$&!#. I've been complying for now. 

 

I don't want to be with her that time has passed, but not being able to totally cut off everything with the condo and dog. The thought of her moving on does in fact hurt though. Which annoys me because I do not want to be with her. Da fuq. Anyways /rant

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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