I think the Jimmies (Fallon and Kimmel) are both trash! SNL was never amusing to me, and Adam Carolla was the far funnier half of the Man Show.
Hang in there!! I am above average height for a woman and have dated guys shorter than me no problem (although it seemed to bother them more than it did me). Living with parents, unemployed, etc...at least for me ambition is a big thing. It's one thing if the guy is in a transition period but trying to better himself. It's another for him to be content with that position.