Bertuzzi Babe Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 the only thing it should explain to you is my intolerance toward your decade long love affair with passive aggressiveness everything else is just projection Link to comment
I♥Wellwood Posted July 18, 2012 Author Share Posted July 18, 2012 anyone else find that comedian in the OP to be embarrassingly unfunny? that same routine has been recycled for three decades Link to comment
GodzillaDeuce Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 whitney isnt funny and i hope her show gets canceled. the stench of that show is trying to rub off onto Community Link to comment
Drybone Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 the only thing it should explain to you is my intolerance toward your decade long love affair with passive aggressiveness everything else is just projection Link to comment
Psylocke Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 Like others have said, if you have suspicions you should talk to your partner first. Snooping through their stuff should be used as a last resort, if at all. Link to comment
mau5trap Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 Not justified. Usually, if there's enough mistrust in a relationship that one party is snooping through the other's crap, the relationship's doomed anyways. Link to comment
:D Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 Like others have said, if you have suspicions you should talk to your partner first. Snooping through their stuff should be used as a last resort, if at all. Link to comment
Dazzle Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 I have something to share but it only has a little bit to do with the issue of trust. I was naive and I was granted a wish that was almost exactly how I wanted it... She and I were a disaster, let's just say. Truly be careful of what you wish for. The girl isn't from here. She talked a lot about me behind my back, ESPECIALLY with the fallout afterward. It was awful. People couldn't even tell what is true and what is a lie. Now the girl in question had been stalking me for a bit, even adding my AIM name which I rarely ever give out, but it must have been found on my FB which had been locked-down with heavy security (that's the only possibility). When I answered her PM, she was looking for a girl named "Jessica". I know it was her because she told me her name and her DP showed her picture. Yikes! I pretended to be someone else and when I mentioned the city I was in, she referred "me" as her ex. We were never 'together'. It lasted a week long and a week was much too long. I think the girl is a slut now, but I guess it doesn't surprise me - she was always an attention whore. I think she has a histrionic personality disorder. She over-exaggerates herself and her accomplishments but she's not "arrogant". She just wants the attention and if you give her the attention... yikes! Anyway, her name/profile name (on the web) has something to do with arousing oneself gently... That girl is nuts though, srsly. Link to comment
I♥Wellwood Posted July 19, 2012 Author Share Posted July 19, 2012 I have something to share but it only has a little bit to do with the issue of trust. I was naive and I was granted a wish that was almost exactly how I wanted it... She and I were a disaster, let's just say. Truly be careful of what you wish for. The girl isn't from here. She talked a lot about me behind my back, ESPECIALLY with the fallout afterward. It was awful. People couldn't even tell what is true and what is a lie. Now the girl in question had been stalking me for a bit, even adding my AIM name which I rarely ever give out, but it must have been found on my FB which had been locked-down with heavy security (that's the only possibility). When I answered her PM, she was looking for a girl named "Jessica". I know it was her because she told me her name and her DP showed her picture. Yikes! I pretended to be someone else and when I mentioned the city I was in, she referred "me" as her ex. We were never 'together'. It lasted a week long and a week was much too long. I think the girl is a slut now, but I guess it doesn't surprise me - she was always an attention whore. I think she has a histrionic personality disorder. She over-exaggerates herself and her accomplishments but she's not "arrogant". She just wants the attention and if you give her the attention... yikes! Anyway, her name/profile name (on the web) has something to do with arousing oneself gently... That girl is nuts though, srsly. Link to comment
avelanch Posted July 19, 2012 Share Posted July 19, 2012 my wife and I know all of eachother's passwords and pins. neither one of us bother checking in on eachother, but the option to do so is there. if you have nothing to hide then there is nothing to fear. Link to comment
Dazzle Posted July 19, 2012 Share Posted July 19, 2012 my wife and I know all of eachother's passwords and pins. neither one of us bother checking in on eachother, but the option to do so is there. if you have nothing to hide then there is nothing to fear. Link to comment
avelanch Posted July 19, 2012 Share Posted July 19, 2012 draconian laws? my wife doesn't overreact to small things, we're both fairly laid back, we're not like Navyblue over here. Link to comment
Navyblue Posted July 19, 2012 Share Posted July 19, 2012 draconian laws? my wife doesn't overreact to small things, we're both fairly laid back, we're not like Navyblue over here. Link to comment
Denguin Posted July 19, 2012 Share Posted July 19, 2012 I think we've all thought about doing our own investigate work at one point or another... I definitely have, but I've never really acted upon it. The only time where I have, I had a brief lapse of judgement and staked out my girlfriend's house once. One night my girlfriend bailed on our plans, claiming she was grounded... I was already on my way to pick her up, so I decided to drive by, maybe even just stop by quickly. I saw another car in the driveway that's definitely not a family members, so I thought she may have been withsomeone else. I parked way up the hill and was going to wait to find out who's car it was. About 2 minutes in, I asked myself what on earth I was doing, and decided to leave because I realized what I was doing was absolutely ridiculous. I trust her, and I've yet to do anything to indicate otherwise since. As others have said, trust is a major building block in a relationship, and you're in trouble if you begin to question your partner. I've found that once you question one thing, you start questioning everything else... kind of like constructing your own conspiracy theory. So to answer the question, no, I don't think it's justified for the most part. Being together doesn't mean all privacy is stripped away from both of you. Everyone is entitled to their own personal space/life. That said, if there's any compelling evidence of something else going on, then maybe it would be justifiable... But don't go snooping to look for evidence; wait for things to surface instead. Link to comment
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