VICanucksfan5551 Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I don't know about that. I was spanked and so was many of my friends and they all turned into fine citizens of society. Yet I've seen little kids who were never punished or touched turn into brats and little punks that were spoiled. The results speak for themselves and if spanking is the only method to raise the child right, then so be it. I don't mean extreme violence on kids but a balanced reward and punishment system that guides them to what the wrong and right actions are. Kids today are so spoiled and lack manners and most of them probably never had a spanking in their life but I guess that is considered an example of good parenting nowadays. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canucksbiggestfan Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 A child should NEVER have to fear being hit by their parent, doesn't matter if all it is, is a light smack. I've done my share of fracked up stuff, and let me tell you that being able to tell your parents things truthfully and knowing you won't be hurt will get you along way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dellins Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I cannot begin to fathom the cognitive dissonance that must take place when a person is resorting to striking someone much smaller and way more defenseless than them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bill Sikes Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I can't believe anyone can feel sorry for her when she hit the driver first, don't dish it out if you can't take it. Personally, I think the driver has had trouble with her before, we can't see what stated the argument in the first place, but I get the impression that the two were familiar with each other. This is likely something that has been building for a while and he finally had enough of her attitude, when she hit him, it was the straw that broke the camels back. If they charge him with assault, they will likely have to charge her as well as she initiated the physical confrontation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharpshooter Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Keep your Wizdom to yourself. Wait until you hit the age of 15. From 15-18 your going to do a lot of dumb things, stuff that you won't even be able to tell your parents. Your life is going to be so "fracked" up for the next couple of years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fathoms Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Please, stop with the act of violence non-sense. If they don't get a little exposure to that act of violence they will either turn up a spoiled brat with no fear of doing anything or a loud mouth jerk with a big ego or someone who ends up committing suicide because they just got exposed to real acts of violence and bullies.They will eventually become exposed to this "act of violence" once they enter elementary or high school. It is better to prepare them early in their childhood so they don't get a shock once they become a little older and suddenly get exposed to real life violence and a violent society. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canucksbiggestfan Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Maybe he's going do a lot of dumb things at 15-18 because he hasn't been properly hit with a shoe or a wooden spoon. I agree with you, his parents should start beating him now in order to make sure he doesn't do any dumb things, like hit children with a shoe or a wooden spoon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
logic Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Keep your Wizdom to yourself. Wait until you hit the age of 15. From 15-18 your going to do a lot of dumb things, stuff that you won't even be able to tell your parents. Your life is going to be so "fracked" up for the next couple of years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canucksbiggestfan Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 LOL. So your opinion matters but mine doesn't? You think I would know when I'm the kid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharpshooter Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm just letting you know because you said that the child would talk to his parents and tell the truth. After 15 a lot if things start becoming a secret from your parents and crazy "fracked" up things will happen. I'm just getting out of that age, were one of the craziest 3 years of my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buddhas Hand Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm just letting you know because you said that the child would talk to his parents and tell the truth. After 15 a lot if things start becoming a secret from your parents and crazy "fracked" up things will happen. I'm just getting out of that age, were one of the craziest 3 years of my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VICanucksfan5551 Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Your telling you we're always a good little boy who didn't do anything wrong? You know that between 15 and 18 years old, it is one of the craziest times in you life. People do a lot of fracked up stuff at that age. It doesn't matter if the kid received a spanking or not, because from 15-18 things will happen. No method really is going to work at a time like that. I already said this before, but we should just drop this. We are not going to agree on this situation. There is going to be no "winner" and we are not going to change each others minds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canucksbiggestfan Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Maybe you started having more secrets because you'd get hit with a shoe or a wooden spoon if you told the truth. Example : You: "Mom, Dad I want to go to Disneyland" Mom or Dad: *hits you with a shoe or wooden spoon". Awesome parenting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buddhas Hand Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Maybe you should have had your a** beat as a kid. Your behaving like a total douche right now, which is completely unnecessary. My parents have provided me with things I need and more. I am thankful for everything they have done and are doing for me. I never really had secrets, but a lot of my friends did dumb things and didn't tell their parents. Did I do some dumb things, of course. Yes I hid some things, but I always told my mom things. Why don't you stop behaving like a complete clown and just get over yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canucksbiggestfan Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Maybe getting beaten as a kid has taught you to be abusive towards others . why do you feel the need to call sharp a clown ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duodenum Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 How about if he called your parents out, would you take it kindly. I don't really care anymore, I'm Sikh and in my culture kids get beat. It works and it has worked for years and years. You guys can spew whatever garbage you want about how it's abusuve and all that good stuff, but I just don't give a ratsa** anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarthNinja Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Maybe getting beaten as a kid has taught you to be abusive towards others . why do you feel the need to call sharp a clown ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarthNinja Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 Maybe you started having more secrets because you'd get hit with a shoe or a wooden spoon if you told the truth. Example : You: "Mom, Dad I want to go to Disneyland" Mom or Dad: *hits you with a shoe or wooden spoon". Awesome parenting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buddhas Hand Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 How about if he called your parents out, would you take it kindly. I don't really care anymore, I'm Sikh and in my culture kids get beat. It works and it has worked for years and years. You guys can spew whatever garbage you want about how it's abusuve and all that good stuff, but I just don't give a ratsa** anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarthNinja Posted October 14, 2012 Share Posted October 14, 2012 If you have to hit a fellow human being to get them to act in a certain way , what does that say about you ? and what message are you sending that person ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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