pimpcurtly Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 That may very well be. But he is right that nobody likes (respects) a door mat. Door mat does not equate to success with ladies long OR short term. And quite frankly he's right about the vast majority of women in their early 20's. A good chunk of them are a MESS. Crying on nice guys shoulders while they go out and date a-holes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanucksCupHopes Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 Dude she Might not be a she it could be a guy foolin around with u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aGENT Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 Do you think OP is being treated like a doormat because she's hesitant to give a pic or meet? I don't think so, not after only 2 weeks. Maybe after a couple months or if OP was sending a bunch of X rated pics with nothing in return but not in this case, IMO. And who are you kidding really?? There are probably just as many messed up guys as there are girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuckin_futz Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 Dude she Might not be a she it could be a guy foolin around with u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buddhas Hand Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 The OP said he's had plenty of phone calls with her. So I am assuming we can agree that she is in fact a woman. Pretty sad that this woman would describe herself as "ugly". That's a very harsh word. Especially to use about yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pimpcurtly Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 I think you missed my point. The world is most certainly not lacking a-hole men for those women to date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodzillaDeuce Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 I guess I'm still not getting your point. Why bring up how messed up young girls are these days when there's just as many messed up guys? Do you think OP's girl is messed up for being insecure or unsure. I think two weeks is to early to be making such judgements....just my opinion though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pimpcurtly Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 he never said there wasn't loads of messed up guys as well, in fact he's agreeing with you there (calling them a-holes). but that's not pertinent to this conversation, as a) op seems like a nice guy, and b ) girl seems pretty messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodzillaDeuce Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 My girlfriend of many years was very insecure when we first met....does that mean shes messed up too?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pimpcurtly Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 I'm not falling for that trap. suffice it to say that, at the time that she WAS insecure, regardless of whether or not she is currently, by J.R.'s definition she was "messed up" but let me clarify, I am in no way myself calling your girlfriend messed up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Ambien Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 My girlfriend of many years was very insecure when we first met....does that mean shes messed up too?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tortorella's Rant Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Maybe she looks like John Tortorella. Handsome lady! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KFBR392 Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Is anybody else checking this thread consistently in hopes that the op posts pictures of this mysterious lady??? I am. I think we deserve to know shortly after the op finds out. It's only fair... Right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaxLapierreAwesomeFace Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 I don't think you should waste your time honestly. But follow your heart, CDC can't and probably won't change your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pianoman13 Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Just be honest with her! Tell her that you have already told her that you aren't a superficial person and you understand that she is insecure. Tell her that she needs to take this step (if not with you, with someone else later in life) if you are going to progress in your relationship. Let her know that she can trust you, and thats all you can do. It seems she needs to overcome this hurdle to get farther into a relationship with you, and untill she does that you guys are kind of going nowhere. Doesn't mean you are going backwards, its just not progressing. Let her know you can only wait so long, but try not to pressure her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lockhart Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stick-in-Rink Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 At least she was straight forward with you. I think she just never wanted to get your hopes up from the beginning of her You're going to feel more attached to her if you guys continue talking so I think you should start letting go if she's not willing to go further with it like you are.. You both should move on with your lives. She herself even told you to meet someone else You honestly say the appearance doesn't matter for you.. but there has to be some sort of appeal there or it's not going to work. She honestly needs to figure things out for herself before figuring them out with you. I'm sure you can reel another girl in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danthecanucksfan Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Is anybody else checking this thread consistently in hopes that the op posts pictures of this mysterious lady??? I am. I think we deserve to know shortly after the op finds out. It's only fair... Right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mainly Mattias Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 i'm bored. OP, post some new developments. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SukhKular Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Bottom line is no girl is worth this much time. I'm not a hater or anything. No guy is worth this much time either. Life is too short for these stupid mind games. Leave this stuff in high school where it belongs. Move on. Don't block or delete her. But stop pursuing it and let her do the work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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