Mr. Ambien Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Give her some Red Bull and coffee so she doesn't get depressed, then have sex with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strawberries Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Exactly. Get it out of her system, all in one go. Bring ice cream. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil_314 Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 this case sounds similar enough (sure hope u do better than Mr. Cooper here; hope this helps ) really though, I'd agree with some of the others here-- take her mind off of things, just be there to talk and do stuff with her that she would enjoy (maybe show her the clip I sent above and how similar it is to her state heh yeah you know what to do, just be a friend) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master Mind Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 So your asking CDC for help? Canucks.com,fire av,trade luongo,trade Schneider,trade both,trade raymond,Ballard,Schroeder,1st, for Nash,trade kesler,shall I continue? And your asking CDC,Canucks.com for help. Good luck my Interweb friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spoderman Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 I would just try to take her mind off of it and tell her it's going to be fine. Cliche, but still works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuckspride Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Have you tried buying her diablo 3? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uber_pwnzor Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Beer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MashedBananas Posted May 19, 2012 Author Share Posted May 19, 2012 give her some booze Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bill Sikes Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Hey guys, So....one of my closest and best friends is really upset right now. She found out she's going to need work done on her knee because it's pretty messed up right now and is nervous of the thought of surgery.... and now she just broke up with her boyfriend. She's been really really upset and she's turning to me for comfort right now.....but I feel like i'm failing miserably at it. I've just been there for her, giving her a shoulder to cry on, trying to lift her spirits, and encourage her, but i'm having trouble with all three of those because I really don't know what to do! She means a lot to me so I absolutely hate seeing her this down, yet I'm feeling almost useless when she needs me.....any advice? Thanks, HC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Horny Manatee Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Remind her that she's not a child soldier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KFBR392 Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 It's knee surgery, not cancer. Tell her to man up and grow a pair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denguin Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 First of all, do you have any interest in starting a relationship with her? Because how you approach it will change everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rypien37 Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 We live in a 1st world country with access to a lot of things most of the world dreams of. We are all very lucky. Knee surgery is temporary not the end of the world, life goes on. Smoke a j. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WHL rocks Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 These things take time. She's going to go thru her ups and downs and just remind her that time heals. Everyone who's been in a relationship will tell you it takes time to get over it when the relationship ends. Don't stress over it too much. There is only so much you can do and the most important thing is that she knows you are there when she needs to talk to someone. If she gets more depressed or turns to intoxicants try to get her professional help. Her family doctor can refer her to a psychologist, its covered by MSP so it won't cost her anything. I'm assuming what ails your friend is the breakup with her boyfriend, not so much the knee surgery. If its the knee surgery then you just need to tell her to relax, she's not going in for a open heart surgery or cancer treatment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiCHC3 Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 For yourself &/or your friend. Fraser Health Crisis Line Help could be just a call away.. 24 hours a day. Everyday. Emotional Support • Crisis Intervention • Resource Information Immediate • Free • Confidential Local 604.951.8855 • Toll Free: 1.877.820.7444 Beyond that though, for the most part it's best to simply empathize with people. Sometimes when we try to comfort others we have a tendency to look for solutions too early when it may be best to let them cry it out and simply feel less alone. A hug and reassurance that you'll be there to listen to her whenever she needs you, is probably the best remedy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GLASSJAW Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Words to live by. Brilliant quote, from the best show ever created. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z2Q7YRDL90E Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Wizard of AZ Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 what would you do if your son was at home cryin' all alone on the bedroom floor cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money and his daddy's gone, somewhere smokin' rock now, in and out of lock down, I ain't got a job now, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pimpcurtly Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 ^^^^^ @GLASSJAW That is an excellent quote...but I hope you're not encouraging the OP to slap his lady friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Real deal - Stan Smyl Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Just broke up means she is likely lonely and horny. Bad knee means even if she isnt receptive, she can't run away. Sounds like she's a sure thing This might be the suckiest thread ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scottish⑦Canuck Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 what would you do if your son was at home cryin' all alone on the bedroom floor cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money and his daddy's gone, somewhere smokin' rock now, in and out of lock down, I ain't got a job now, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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