Gurn Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 So, much like J.B. when something good happens like this fellow doing his court ordered punishment, counselling and trying to remove himself from the draft; that is to someone else's credit(Judd Bracket), but when he did bad it is entirely on him? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gurn Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 2 minutes ago, shayster007 said: but that is a naive statement based off how the criminal justice system works. Actually my statement is correct, based on how the Criminal justice system works; unfortunately for this man; the pitchfork crowd will not rest. The pitchfork crowd are not part of the criminal justice system and need to be disbanded. Sadly, after chasing this guy into oblivion, many will go to church on a Holy day and pretend to belong to a religion that espouses forgiveness. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rubik Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 (edited) 2 hours ago, DeltaSwede said: He has likely ruined a woman's life. is this the "sharing some of her nudes" story? because then your statement is just laughable. Edited September 2, 2021 by Rubik Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gurn Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 3 minutes ago, Rubik said: is this "the sharing some of her nudes story"? because then your statement is just laughable. Not quite, he took video of a lady giving him oral sex, then showed some teammates the video. In the video the teammates saw, it was not possible to identify the gal. He then further compounded his problem by linking to her facebook page, basically revealing her identity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanuckinEdm Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 2 hours ago, Bounce000 said: I feel bad for the kid... he seemed genuinely sorry for what he did and owned his mistake. You would of thought he was strangling puppies the way people are punishing him He distributed a nude picture of a girl without her knowledge.... dude is scum. He should have some sort of repercussions from his actions, he was already drafted into the NHL its not closing the door on his future its putting a kink in it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gurn Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 1 minute ago, CanuckinEdm said: He should have some sort of repercussions from his actions, You mean like being convicted in a Swedish court, and doing all that the court ordered; that kind of punishment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rubik Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 1 minute ago, gurn said: Not quite, he took video of a lady giving him oral sex, then showed some teammates the video. In the video the teammates saw, it was not possible to identify the gal. He then further compounded his problem by linking to her facebook page, basically revealing her identity. ohh... well, he's truly a POS then. but it's still not the end of the world for her i think, especially if she really can't be recognized in the vid. couple of months and everybody will forget about the video hopefully. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Fanuck Posted September 2, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 2, 2021 Would like to remind this thread that there's an actual victim in this story and flippantly stating that it's not the end of the world for her and It'll blow over in a few months isn't, in my view, appropriate. 6 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rubik Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 (edited) 56 minutes ago, Fanuck said: Would like to remind this thread that there's an actual victim in this story and flippantly stating that it's not the end of the world for her and It'll blow over in a few months isn't, in my view, appropriate. well next time perhaps don't act like a &^@#ing pornstar and let yourself being recorded unless you trust your partner 100%. and even then, someone can still hack his phone/pc, so it can still end up on the net, so always be prepared that it could end up in the wrong hands. if you can't live with those consequences, just don't do it. i guess she learned that the hard way. Edited September 2, 2021 by Rubik 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gurn Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Rubik said: but it's still not the end of the world for her i think, especially if she really can't be recognized in the vid. couple of months and everybody will forget about the video hopefully. I don't know the lady's name, don't think it was part of the original posts on this issue. I also don't want to know. What gets me on a over all societal level: Why is it that some people will believe her life is ruined, because a video of her having sex was shown. Don't almost all adults and a whole pile of teens have sex? Don't a lot of them film it? Hard to believe a life is ruined because someone is shown doing what most of us do. That said, yes he committed an illegal, slimy act, was convicted, did his sentence/fine and apparently counselling. Sadly, the decisions of a court of law are not enough "justice" for some people. Which I have room for as an argument, but that argument is supposed to be directed at the court system to get it to change, not focused on the convicted person, that did what the court said was to be done. Edited September 2, 2021 by gurn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanuckinEdm Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 10 minutes ago, gurn said: You mean like being convicted in a Swedish court, and doing all that the court ordered; that kind of punishment? a fine and an apology text... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gurn Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 3 minutes ago, CanuckinEdm said: a fine and an apology text... AS I recently stated, fine if you have a problem with what the court ordered, take that up with the court. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gurn Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 6 minutes ago, Rubik said: well next time perhaps don't act like a &^@#ing pornstar and let yourself be recorded To all accounts I've seen the lady in question did not know she was being filmed. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeanSeanBean Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 7 minutes ago, Rubik said: well next time perhaps don't act like a &^@#ing pornstar and let yourself be recorded unless you trust your partner 100%. and even then, someone can still hack his phone/pc, so it can still end up on the net, so always be prepared that it could end up in the wrong hands. if you can't live with those consequences, just don't do it. i guess she learned that the hard way. he filmed it without her knowledge or consent.... 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rubik Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 1 minute ago, gurn said: To all accounts I've seen the lady in question did not know she was being filmed. ok then really f-ck the guy. i'm surprised nobody beat him up. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fanuck Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 10 minutes ago, Rubik said: well next time perhaps don't act like a &^@#ing pornstar and let yourself be recorded unless you trust your partner 100%. and even then, someone can still hack his phone/pc, so it can still end up on the net, so always be prepared that it could end up in the wrong hands. if you can't live with those consequences, just don't do it. i guess she learned that the hard way. Can we hold off of the victim blaming - we don't know all the facts and likely never will. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gurn Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 To add a bit of clarification. I do not doubt this lady's life has been effected in a large, negative way. Some people will think less of her, for something she had no control over. I was just saying it is a shame people will think badly of her, merely because there is "proof" that she did something we all do. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rubik Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Fanuck said: Can we hold off of the victim blaming - we don't know all the facts and likely never will. i'm not blaming her, but when does she have to start taking responsibility for her actions? the dude is POS no matter what, but if you let yourself recorded you kinda have to share some of the blame. sth like 80-20 ofc if she really didn't know about being recorded then it's a completely different subject. Edited September 2, 2021 by Rubik 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-SN- Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 1 minute ago, Rubik said: i'm not blaming her, but when does she have to start taking responsibility for her actions? the dude is POS no matter what, but if you let yourself recorded you kinda have to share some of the blame. ofc if she really didn't know about being recorded then it's a completely different subject. Your post was the definition of victim blaming. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rubik Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 (edited) 11 minutes ago, -SN- said: Your post was the definition of victim blaming. i don't know, you kinda remove all responsibility from her shoulders and that's not a good lesson for others. that won't help anybody next time. but anyway, apparently she didn't know about the video so in that case just strike my comment on responsibility. Edited September 2, 2021 by Rubik 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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