pharmalaw Posted April 1, 2018 Share Posted April 1, 2018 dear OP.. 1) how old are you? (just for factual purposes and to get an idea of what stage of life/priorities you may have right now) 2) be honest with yourself.. do you have any attraction for your co-worker and is there any reason your gf would find her threatening other than the fact she is a female? if so, you gotta take some ownership of the situation and try to see from your gf's perspective. 3) is your current gf someone you see yourself settling down with? if not, i would simply carry on as you are and stick to your guns... if she can't handle it and leaves, you dodged a bullet... if she is a keeper, then also stick to your guns... i've found that being lenient with insecure/needy individuals only feeds their behaviour... sometimes people need to be confronted about their issues.. often it isn't about your actions or what you are doing but more their own sense of self and confidence (or lack of)... just my 2 cents Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alflives Posted April 1, 2018 Share Posted April 1, 2018 12 minutes ago, pharmalaw said: dear OP.. 1) how old are you? (just for factual purposes and to get an idea of what stage of life/priorities you may have right now) 2) be honest with yourself.. do you have any attraction for your co-worker and is there any reason your gf would find her threatening other than the fact she is a female? if so, you gotta take some ownership of the situation and try to see from your gf's perspective. 3) is your current gf someone you see yourself settling down with? if not, i would simply carry on as you are and stick to your guns... if she can't handle it and leaves, you dodged a bullet... if she is a keeper, then also stick to your guns... i've found that being lenient with insecure/needy individuals only feeds their behaviour... sometimes people need to be confronted about their issues.. often it isn't about your actions or what you are doing but more their own sense of self and confidence (or lack of)... just my 2 cents How old are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pharmalaw Posted April 1, 2018 Share Posted April 1, 2018 1 minute ago, Alflives said: How old are you? 28 lol.. am i old? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alflives Posted April 1, 2018 Share Posted April 1, 2018 Just now, pharmalaw said: 28 lol.. am i old? I have socks older! (67) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkyard Dog Posted April 1, 2018 Share Posted April 1, 2018 Wear a body cam at all times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rounoush Posted April 2, 2018 Share Posted April 2, 2018 Just play it cool, man. She is jelly. Don't try too hard to convince her that nothing is going on. She'll get over it. "A man without hand is not a man at all." - George Costanza Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanuckleHorse Posted April 2, 2018 Share Posted April 2, 2018 I only lie about infidelity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Arrogant Worms Posted April 2, 2018 Share Posted April 2, 2018 1 - You are putting yourself in a horrible position ,,,you are this young woman's boss. The optics do not look good and if something was to go wrong she could come after you claiming something happened .... made advances on her etc......not a good idea. 2 - I would also like to know how old you are and how old she is. 3 - You and your girlfriend have bigger issues than this one event. Trust and honesty being 1-2 4 - I am old like Alf (almost 60)...and have been in pretty much every type of relationship that one can imagine. 5 - I wish I had a dollar(make that 1 million) for every relationship problem I have had. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riffraff Posted April 2, 2018 Share Posted April 2, 2018 Ugh. Move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tortorella's Rant Posted April 2, 2018 Share Posted April 2, 2018 You know when you don't have relationship problems? When yous a strong independent man who need no woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HI5 Posted April 2, 2018 Share Posted April 2, 2018 Well my gf was always jealous and thought I was out cheating on her..after a while it just got frustrating so I peaced out. #noragrets Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
189lb enforcers? Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 Run. Do not knock her up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Arrogant Worms Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 11 hours ago, Tortorella's Rant said: You know when you don't have relationship problems? When yous a strong independent man who need no woman! Well I am attracted to women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lancaster Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 A jealous/controlling girlfriend (or boyfriend) is never worth keeping. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RRypien37 Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 14 hours ago, Tortorella's Rant said: You know when you don't have relationship problems? When yous a strong independent man who need no woman! MGTOW Not going to lie, some of their concepts are pretty valid and true... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tortorella's Rant Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 8 hours ago, RRypien37 said: MGTOW Not going to lie, some of their concepts are pretty valid and true... Costs a lot less in the end, too.. At least girlfriends can be short term investments. All of these guys running out to get married. I never really understood that. Some friends, some people I know of. Half of them statistically speaking end in the crapper, in divorce. Others don't result in that necessarily but what you may consider 'unhappy.' So no thanks... we're supposed to learn from the mistakes of those that came before us.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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