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#31 Peaches

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Posted 18 November 2012 - 12:55 PM

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Posted 18 November 2012 - 01:00 PM

send her my way... she will forget about you real fast :shock:
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Posted 18 November 2012 - 06:06 PM

Oooohhh, someone got burned badly despite his protestations otherwise.

You do realize that this sort of generalization is probably one of the reasons you're such a great catch, right?

You don't really care but you've now characterized 'most girls' as whores deep down and you're writing about it at 2:24 am on a hockey board......

Uhhhh huh..... but you don't care........




you're right i don't, that's why i;m posting cause it doesn't bother me and i find it humourous cause she was one of those types that thinks most guys are "pigs" when she in fact was one it turns out lol so i'm glad i ended it when i did.

it;s ok for girls to say these things about guys but how dare it go the other way right? classic double standard you don't sound any different

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Posted 18 November 2012 - 06:56 PM

Lol.

This is really the best advice so far.

Don't read them and she will think you blocked her.


The thing is i decline her phone every time, but always after a text message she makes sure my phone still works and texts me 'just wanted to make sure you received that ;)' or something along the lines of being snobbish
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#35 Peaches

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Posted 18 November 2012 - 07:05 PM

Well, that's rude.
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#36 VICanucksfan5551

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Posted 18 November 2012 - 07:16 PM

You're doing the right thing in ignoring her.
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Posted 18 November 2012 - 08:09 PM

Honestly, it depends on the age here. If you're young, this is likely a fairly normal reaction to hurt and rejection. She's lashing out but, eventually, she'll get tired and move on. Just be consistent and don't send any mixed messages.

How did you expect her to react when, after a year and a half, you've suddenly decided that your future doesn't include her? Of course she's going to be shocked and and hurt. The part about other guys is obviously to stir a reaction and try to make you jealous. If it's working, it makes me wonder if you made the right decision. I mean, she will eventually move on...are you ok with that? I'm really curious as to what made you arrive at your decision to dump her. And, while she's acting pretty childish and immature, people do crazy things when they feel betrayed so this is pretty normal. If it persists, it is not.
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Posted 18 November 2012 - 08:20 PM

you're right i don't, that's why i;m posting cause it doesn't bother me and i find it humourous cause she was one of those types that thinks most guys are "pigs" when she in fact was one it turns out lol so i'm glad i ended it when i did.

it;s ok for girls to say these things about guys but how dare it go the other way right? classic double standard you don't sound any different


Really? I don't recall say anything that is remotely double standard-ish. In fact I didn't say anything about guys and their behavior after a breakup or anything remotely approaching anything like "deep down all men are whores" You really need to stop putting words in my mouth. :lol: And here's a clue, not ALL girls/women say that about guys.

(And nice try with the ole passive/aggressive shot in there.....I should have known better than to expect a more mature response.)

You don't appear to recognize sarcasm when you read it, either. :lol:

Edited by Bertuzzi Babe, 18 November 2012 - 08:26 PM.

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Posted 18 November 2012 - 08:55 PM

Honestly, it depends on the age here. If you're young, this is likely a fairly normal reaction to hurt and rejection. She's lashing out but, eventually, she'll get tired and move on. Just be consistent and don't send any mixed messages.

How did you expect her to react when, after a year and a half, you've suddenly decided that your future doesn't include her? Of course she's going to be shocked and and hurt. The part about other guys is obviously to stir a reaction and try to make you jealous. If it's working, it makes me wonder if you made the right decision. I mean, she will eventually move on...are you ok with that? I'm really curious as to what made you arrive at your decision to dump her. And, while she's acting pretty childish and immature, people do crazy things when they feel betrayed so this is pretty normal. If it persists, it is not.

My decision arrived from constantly arguing and its not like we havent up broken up before, this time i just decided to finalize it cause i couldnt take it no more. Shes constantly restricting me from friends and before she said they were 'not productive''. Aside from that she always thinks shes somewhat better then me and telling me to grow up.
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Posted 18 November 2012 - 09:23 PM

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Posted 19 November 2012 - 12:41 AM

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Posted 19 November 2012 - 12:25 PM

I think you have 3 courses of action

1. Send her a really hateful text. Something that will just make her cry.
2. Start seeing her sister, and I mean take pictures and send those in a text aswell (I guess this is similiar to #1)
3. Ignore her

For me it's a toss up... :bigblush:
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Posted 19 November 2012 - 12:42 PM

She's insecure and a sociopath with nothing better to do. Ignore it until she gets bored with you and finds a new pet to play with.


Agreed. She probably didn't expect to get dumped and now she's upset. She texts you because she wants you back.
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Posted 20 November 2012 - 12:54 AM

I think you have 3 courses of action

1. Send her a really hateful text. Something that will just make her cry.
2. Start seeing her sister, and I mean take pictures and send those in a text aswell (I guess this is similiar to #1)
3. Ignore her

For me it's a toss up... :bigblush:


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Posted 20 November 2012 - 01:13 AM

Honestly, it depends on the age here. If you're young, this is likely a fairly normal reaction to hurt and rejection. She's lashing out but, eventually, she'll get tired and move on. Just be consistent and don't send any mixed messages.

How did you expect her to react when, after a year and a half, you've suddenly decided that your future doesn't include her? Of course she's going to be shocked and and hurt. The part about other guys is obviously to stir a reaction and try to make you jealous. If it's working, it makes me wonder if you made the right decision. I mean, she will eventually move on...are you ok with that? I'm really curious as to what made you arrive at your decision to dump her. And, while she's acting pretty childish and immature, people do crazy things when they feel betrayed so this is pretty normal. If it persists, it is not.


Deb, you're being way to rational for this situation. Times like these call for melodramatic revenge.


Dude, here are some options:
- Send a txt saying "I'm really happy for you that you've been meeting some great guys. It looks like this was the right choice because I've meet some really amazing girls since I broke up with you. I just had my world rocked last night by this girl from Europe."
- Get good at photoshop. Let your imagination take off. Send your creations to her. (Feel free to show us first).
- Tell her that you are gay. You weren't to begin with, but she made you change
- And my personal favorite - send copies of her txts to her friends and family.
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Posted 20 November 2012 - 01:19 AM

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